Tough times don’t last. Tough people do.

As a counsellor, in my work today I met a lady rejected by her Husband. Mary was devastated but my little counselling somehow brought life back into her.

We need to know that all things shall pass away, even time shall be swallowed up In Immorality.

The pain and sorrow of losing a loved one will eventually pass away. The disappointment and grief and being let go shall fade away.

Fear of rejection that is even worse than rejection itself shall also vanish in time.

WHAT IS FEAR?

Fear is simply false expectations appearing real. When describing rejection, people often say that it is the dismissal of a proposal or idea.

The fear of rejection is often far more personal because you become the object of rejection. Once this happens, you begin to fear failure instead of focusing on trying to understand why you were rejected in the first place.

It’s not about what you want to do Mary, it’s all about who you want to become despite being rejected. This is not the end of your life because you need to move on for some doors needs to close for others to be opened.

It is about playing your cards right, knowing who you are and what you want, and finding ways to reach your full potential.

All counselling plus the little donation of 20k from my wife and me to start up her hair salon changed mary's countenance as I could see that gentle smiles pushing away all agonies and pains of rejection.

All we need to do is read people mind psychologically and know the solution to their problems and help solve them by providing the little we can other than just counsel them and expect them to be OK. We all are created to be solutions to someone somehow and someday.

Have you ever been a solution to someone before? how did you feel doing so? thanks for your replies.