The "One Step at a Time" Mindset
The "One Step at a Time" Mindset
How to Conquer Anything Without Losing Your Mind
Ever looked at a massive goal and thought, "Nope, not today"? Whether it’s starting a business, running a marathon, or just folding the mountain of laundry threatening to consume your couch, the key to tackling anything big is simple: one step at a time.
You don’t need to conquer Everest in one leap, you just need to take that first tiny, awkward step. Let’s break it down with some funny (but true) examples.
Example 1: Learn a New Skill
You want to learn guitar. Great! But instead of imagining yourself shredding like Jimi Hendrix by next Friday, reality kicks in. You pick up the guitar, strum it once, and it sounds like an old shoe being thrown down the stairs.
The "One Step at a Time" Fix:
- Day 1: Learn one chord. That’s it.
- Day 2: Learn one more chord.
- Day 7: String together a semi-coherent version of "Wonderwall."
- Month 3: You’re the campfire MVP. 🤭
Example 2: Start a Business
Dreaming of making a million dollars online? Fantastic. But instead of panicking about getting 412 website visitors per day (we see you, stress sweats), start small:
- Step 1: Write one blog post.
- Step 2: Learn one SEO tip.
- Step 3: Promote your post in one online group.
- Step 4: Repeat, refine, and profit (eventually).
Before you know it, your website isn’t just a lonely digital void. it’s an actual income stream!
Example 3: Get in Shape
We all want to be fit, but let’s be honest: the first trip to the gym feels like entering a medieval torture chamber.
Instead of sprinting full-speed on the treadmill and regretting every life choice, try this:
- Day 1: Walk for 10 minutes.
- Day 2: Do one push-up (yes, one).
- Week 2: You’re lifting weights (not heavy ones, but hey, progress!).
- Month 6: Your arms no longer feel like noodles after opening a jar of pickles.
Example 4: Clean up Your House
Your house looks like a tornado and an Amazon delivery truck had a baby. You’re tempted to burn it all down and start fresh.
The "One Step at a Time" Fix:
- Step 1: Pick up one sock. Just one.
- Step 2: Put away one dish.
- Step 3: Celebrate like you just won an Olympic medal.
- Step 4: Keep going, one thing at a time. Before you know it, your house looks almost Instagram-worthy.
Final Thoughts: Small Steps, Big Wins
The secret to accomplishing anything? Start small, stay consistent, and don’t freak out about the big picture. Every success story started with someone taking that first tiny, awkward step.
So, what’s one small step you can take today?
Drop it in the comments... bonus points if it's hilarious! 🚀 😌
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Haha, I remember my first guitar and you're right Fleeky, it did resemble the sound of an old shoe being thrown down the stairs! 🤣🤣🎸
Your message is a lot like, "How do you eat an elephant...one bite at a time".
Thanks, Fleeky!
Tim 🎼
Great post, Fleeky! I use the step-by-step approach in many aspects of my life. Although I believe in pivoting as needed (and it often is essential in my life!) I like to begin with a list which includes steps in one form or another. Having a plan of simple steps to the ultimate goal also helps me to stay on track better. Those rabbit trails still happen, but having a plan to revert back to does help.
Thanks for the reminder and examples-- very helpful!
This makes so much sense, Fleeky. I do this all the time—if I look at the whole thing, I feel stuck. But when I break it down, suddenly it’s doable. The sock example? Way too real.
Best,
Boris
I just leave wealthy affiliate program for almost 3 to 5 years since join in 2018 i think.Chasing all kind of making money fast but nothing i gain.So just yesturday i think of opening back wealthy affiliate page and start again. After reading back one step other a time,i realize this is true.thank you for your post.
Welcome back Harry!
Success comes very often with a heavy toll... and few are really prepared for it...
The path unfolds as you walk it. Keep focus on the road, be not distracted by the side tracks... and set up a website in your own language... that is what I tried...
And yes, do not focus on quick money... try to master the basics
Wishing you well. Let us know when stuck! ✨
Fleeky
Thank you Myra...
Prepare for success... it can be more than overwhelming!
What would success mean for you?
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You're welcome, Fleeky. I think for me success is a way of freedom, only when celebrated financially and being responsible of your spendings and earnings.
Just truly living the life that I want. ❤️
Myra ♥️
You're right, Fleeky. Rome wasn't built in a day, but it took laying that first brick, then the second, and so on.
I do remember going to the gym years ago and doing that first ever pull-up. It was TORTURE! But a stepping stone, nevertheless!
Isaiah 😁
Exactly! Rome wasn’t built in a day, but someone had to lay that first wobbly brick and hope for the best. 🏗️😂 And that first-ever pull-up? Absolute legend status. 💪🔥 Torture, yes...and... also a stepping stone to greatness!
The key is showing up, surviving the struggle, and stacking those small wins. Thanks for sharing your story (bet that pull-up was the start of many more!) 🚀💯
Fleeky
Haha Richard, “sane-ish” is the best we can hope for some days! 🤪😂 One step at a time keeps things moving… and at least delays the total descent into chaos! 😆
Thanks for the laugh!May our next step be a good one (or at least not a trip!). 😉🚀
According to the one-step-at-a-time theory, on low-energy days, I ask myself, "What can I do right now that will make tomorrow better?" Even if I only get the list for tomorrow to the top of the desk, I won't spend time hunting it down tomorrow and getting sidetracked!
Just do something!
Thanks,
Sami
Hey Sami
That’s such a fantastic way to apply the one-step-at-a-time mindset! Asking, “What can I do right now that will make tomorrow better?” is a game-changer. Small efforts today really do stack up over time.
And honestly, just finding the to-do list can feel like an accomplishment some days. 😂 The key is exactly what you said: just do something... even tiny steps keep the momentum going!
Thanks for sharing your insight! Hope today’s small step makes tomorrow a little smoother. 🚀💪
Fleeky
PS
Never postpone what takes less than 2 minutes☺️
Basically, success is like learning to dance: start with a tiny step, don’t trip over your own feet, and try not to panic when the music speeds up!" 😆
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Absolutely! Success (and dancing) is all about starting small, keeping your balance, and not freaking out when things speed up! 💃🕺😆 And hey, even if you do trip a little, just call it “creative choreography” and keep going!
Love this analogy... thanks for the laugh! Now, excuse me while I go practice my one-step-at-a-time salsa moves. 😂💪
Fleeky
Ps
And yes, freeking out when things speed up
Haha, and you nailed it! 🎯😂 Consider those bonus points officially awarded: gold star and all! ⭐🤣 Now the real question is… will you go for the grand prize next time? 😆
Thanks for bringing the laughs! Always appreciated. 🚀😂
Fleeky
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Hi Fleeky!
Your "One Step at a Time" fix makes sense! Indeed, it gets overwhelming when you look at the big picture of what you need to accomplish.
However, with your "One Step at a Time" fix, it helps you to get started and if you keep going it will lead to big wins.
Its all about mindset. Thanks for sharing this valuable post! Wishing you the very best! Have an awesome weekend!
Kind regards,
Nichola
Hi Nichola!
So good to read you!
Wishing you a peaceful end of week as well!
Best for you
Fleeky
Thank very much!
Best regards,
Nichola