Reframing
“Sometimes we are stressed and want distraction. When thoughts about an impending divorce, an operation, or a move to a new city prove anxiety provoking, we often seek relief by trying to occupy our minds with other things. We may find temporary relief, but if the issue in question is important to us our minds find a way back. Rather than trying to think about something else, a more effective strategy may be to think about the problem differently. In research Irving Janis, John Wolfer, and I conducted we taught people about to undergo major surgery to reframe the hospital experience. We asked the group to view the experience from a more adaptive perspective, to attempt to notice the advantages of being in the hospital. Having time to take stock of goals or to get in touch with family and friends who had been taken for granted or even a forced weight loss can be seen as an advantage. The potential advantages varied from person to person. Patients in this group felt less stress, took fewer pain relievers and sedatives, and left the hospital sooner than did patients who were not given this preparation. The desire to be distracted was the desire to be otherwise attracted.”
—Ellen Langer from The Power of Mindful Learning
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Really interesting research. I can relate to this following some fairly major surgery. A positive attitude does seem to get good results!!
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Very interesting Fabray. I do understand what you are saying here - it's kind of like - embrace it - don't fight it...is that right?
Yes you got it right. Instead of backing away from pain, we have to learn to lean into it because there is where our infinite potential lies. I am talking to myself so you understand. ;-)
LOL! I do that a lot!