Defeated - Feeling defeated and beat down
Are you facing obstacles in your path? Are you get to feel defeated from WA and all the information you've been crawling through. Do things seem too hard? Many successful people do not know what the word defeat means. Why? that's because they made it with hard work and dedication and keep pushing forwards, sure successful people never ever have a hard or defeated day never in their life (rolls my eyes and chuckle) everyone has them every single day they just don't let it bother them or drag it around day after day.
Do you listen to all those little nagging voices in your head - that tell you can't do something or that you really will never achieve something? Do you tend to think in pessimistic terms when you are faced with a seemingly huge challenge? do you think of a challenge as an adventure and look at things in an optimistic way? Do you believe that you can do whatever it takes to achieve something?
Well, if you are somewhere in between then your like me and almost all the people i've met here at Wealthy Affiliate. Ideas on empowering yourself to deal with challenges and work against defeat is what it takes to raise above and see what's on the other side and the being our next chapter and for some of us right here on WA that's back at day 1 and bragging to everyone that you have taken those steps to "re-boot" and double your tracks to success and knowledge. We all learn in different ways, we all are different no matter what anyone tells us.
To feel change we must create change
As shown right here on Wealthy Affiliate there are a number of things you can do to improve your self-esteem and self worth. It is often the case, however, that low self-esteem is one piece of a larger set of issues that may be quite challenging, In order to create change we have to be the change we want, In order to build a difference we have to be the difference we want, This is the bottom line the way to think, breath and live.
Attempt not attaching to the computer with duct tape for 20 hours a day, get up, stand up and Hit the markets or shopping malls, get some fresh air and enjoy yourself. The community will be right here when you get back, When you do get back everything will fall into place much more easily.
Impossible is only "word" from the dictionary and it should have just be left out as people from all walks of life accomplish things everyday that were "impossible"
My Conclusion:
I can offer no real advice other then whats above. Currently growing myself and can offer no money because i want it myself! BUT what I can offer is courage and the drive to push forward and that my friends is what we have to accomplish in order to take the next leap! "
"Do the best we can for today and tomorrow will take care of itself"
While i was writing this a fellow by the name of *EddySalomon said after explaining about the feeling of being defeated:
"Agreed. I think we all go through that feeling. I'm pretty successful and have achieved some great things with this business and I've felt like quitting many times or have been done. So it does happen. But that's why we're part of this community so when we feel down we can discuss it here and folks can pull you up".
Take care WA and add me up or see me in the chat everyday!
Ethan Wade
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Never, never, never, give up:) Winston Churchill. I guess, he has been in a more frightening situations. He survived. So we can do the same.
Thank you for the words of encouragement. I really needed encouragement today. Even though I feel like quitting sometimes. When this happens I reflect back to my Why. :)
Very good inspirational post :) I clicked on it to give some encouragement but see you took care of that. You're right that this is one of the benefits of being a Wealthy Affiliate member. When you're struggling, you can turn to the community for support or a helping hand to get through it.
AceJoker - glad you read it all and enjoyed it, Was awesome writing it and most things just flowed.
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I am passsionate about the topic you speak of...everyhing is a matter of perception, but sometimes the choice and decision is not very clear. Communion with others creates a recipe that we can all gain noursiment from - well said Ethan :)
Thank you Sir. Would love to chat some more would you.