Love Without Condition
This is the pure love a parent feels for their child as a newborn and what the baby feels for the parent who meets their every need.
It is only later in life that we learn to put conditions on love.
When we are loved we flourish---when we're not loved we shrivel up and die--ie--the Fuzzy Tale by Claude Steiner
When you put conditions on your love then you're telling someone they're not worthy of your love
In Transactional Analysis terms you're sending the message ---they're not ok
Sometimes we do and say things unintentionally and it creates rifts in a relationship
Understanding this and being willing to change is the first step to building a healthy relationship and reducing stress in your life,
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True love knows no boundary, unfortunately when we become takers only and refuse to give we change the whole process.
Love is an action word.
Love is not just a feeling but requires actions that go with the feeling. Without actions, no one would know they are loved!