It's a little to late.
Hi everybody Clinton here I haven't been online for a few days this week first I want to say so sorry and I hope that what your about to read is fine because the passing of my mother in law and I need to get some things off my chest .In the picture above on the rightside of the pic is my mother in law( Cheryl ) and my awesome wife .
It's a little to late .When think about it all started last week Saturday when my mother in law getting ready to travel to Port Elizabeth to visit an old best friend from her school days . She was excited to going said her good byes and left to go to the bus station when out of where she had a seizure and because of her struggling for oxygen she past out on her way to the bus station got rushed to a Hospital with in CBD of Cape Town . After the doctors had insected my mother in law said that because of my mother in law having a seizure and not being able to breathe she suffered brain damage to her brain and was now comatosed by Wednesday this week the doctor's decided to take her off the air and they said that if they do there is a possibility she might not make it and because of covid - 19 we weren't allowed to go and she her but want they cauld to is video call us from there and we could speak to her via a video calling then later on that day in the evening we received a phone call of her passing . It's a little to late to say sorry to my mother in law for being a bad son in law in the way that I've been towards my in laws because of them living on my premises I've even treat my wife bad in the past but now I'm trying to make things better between us . And from this experience I've learnt that it's very important to a burial plan put into place because now my wife and her sister is left to sort everything out and are now struggling with coming up with the cash for the burial and with very little help if any help at all from family members including her step father might I mention. What realize from this is family is important and be careful how you treat others family or not because otherwise it's to late!! to regret it now so starting from today I'm going to watch the way I treat people especially my wife .
My letter to Cheryl SmithTo Cheryl Smith my mother in law I'm so sorry for the way that I have treated your daughter in the past my regrets that I have now after your passing on Wednesday this past week is that I never showed you how much I appreciated what you did for me by helping myself and Andrea back when I lost my mother 15 years ago and cared for me instead I was trully a bad man from now I am going to show my appreciation by treating every one the same way that I would like to be treated the way you always treat me and loads of others with an overload of kindness and care after my mother you were like a mother to me you will be sadly missed by everyone you left behind. It;s a little to late
So may you rest in peace
Cheryl Smith
good bye mom
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Clinton, I'm so sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and your family. Thanks for the reminder about caring for those around us.
May we find comfort in God our LORD. Like you, I just lost my mom-in-law last month and still feeling sad, because Covid lockdown prevented me from taking care of her in her last moments.
What matters most is your repentance and I believe your mom-in-law knows your love for her.
God bless you as you make good your resolution.
Thanks for sharing this touching story, my friend
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Sorry for you and your wife’s loss, It takes a man to admit to their mistake; may you find peace going forward in your life.
God’s blessings to you.
Elizabeth