Big Decision to Make-Do I Continue or Don't I?
Several things have happened in my life lately that are causing me to re-think my membership in WA. I have been dealing with several personal problems, including the sudden death of my brother-in-law in Florida. I am back from Florida, but have been away from the training and communication for several weeks now and I find I never got far enough into it to become really involved to the point of looking forward to spending time at the computer developing a website. It is so far removed from being a part of my daily life at this point that I do not even know where to start picking up the pieces. I have the feeling that I bit off more than I can chew. There is just way too much to learn and too much time to be spent doing something I am not enjoying for me to have any sort of positive feelings about the outcome. I could not find a niche that I wanted to devote my time and energy to so I decided to promote WA but that is not working for me either. I am thinking I should have purchased a ready-made website and learned how to market it. I don't know if anyone out there has been this discouraged, but if there is, I would be interested in learning the outcome as I continue to struggle.
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Hey. My condolences about your brother-in-law.
Maybe your niche can be about how to be happy. How tonbe motivated. How to overcome negative things. And hopefully this will in turn help you become more positive.
If not, what's your passion? What do you absolutely love that you could go on and on about?
I don't want you to give up cause I think you may be going through a rough time, but WA...WE can help motivate you and help you build your site. It'll take time, but you can do it!!
But if deep deep down you know this isn't for you...then do what is truly best for you. At the end of the day it's completely your decision. We can only try to convince you ;-)
Xx
I'm really sorry for your loss and I understand that sometimes you have to take time for yourself and reflect on the loss.
As much as I truly believe in WA wholeheartedly, not everything is for everyone. So if you are forcing yourself to get through the lessons and decide on what to build a website on, then maybe it's time to say goodbye. At the end of the day, you have to do what makes you happy, and if this is not your passion, then it will turn into a hinderance - which is not the goal.
You may decide down the road to come back once you have sorted something out in your life, but ultimately, you have to do what you feel is right, in which ever decision you decide.
Sometimes you have to decide what is best for you. It is not sacrilege to say WA is not for everyone. It is okay to take time to heal. You may or may not want to come back. Just don't give up on yourself.
Thanks, Barbara. I think you are absolutely right. Whether I come back or not, I will not give up on me.
First off I'd like to say that I am sorry to here about your families loss. But I also want to say do not let it be a set back, losing someone close to you should be a wake up call and add a bit more drive to everything you do each and everyday as tomorrow isn't promised so give 100% to anything you choose to do.
I say this from experience. I sat some really high goals for myself here, but those goals are not selfish I just want to be rich goals. I have been shot and I have lost a few family members to that same sort of violence recently. I watch my parents get up day in and day out and work themselves to death for the sake of someone elses company only to get bread crumbs compared to what they contribute to the companies success.
I had to listen to an now Ex girl friend tell me that she was getting an abortion and it was over because I didn't have the resources to be the type of man and give her the type of life as she put it "she deserved". Worst off it was a boy at that so not only have I lost family members but a son as well. Let your loss or losses be the reason WHY you dont give up and the reason WHY you keep pushing to better your life.
Whether this helped or not I hope you get out of that funk man. Life is too short to spend it depressed and I mean that in the best way possible man. Be safe out there and stay focused no matter which path you choose to take.
Best regards,
Vincent armstrong
Vincent, I really appreciate your response and your sharing your story. I have never been a naturally "happy" person--I have to work at it. My life today would be pretty good except for the fact that I need additional income. I will be re-reading your comment and giving some serious thought to renewing my interest in working this business. I really hate to quit because that would not solve my problem. Thanks again.
No problem at all sir but just know you will always be able to find a reason not to do something. The hardest thing to do is to find a reason to keep going and not let life knock you out of the game.
That was a really deep message you just left. You have certainly overcome some serious s*** and yet, managed to stay focused on your goals to make life better for yourself regardless of your situation. I know this post isn't about you, but kudos to you for staying positive and keeping your eyes on the prize! Don't let anyone (or female) break that spirit you have!
Cheers
Nicki
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So sorry for your loss, love. I'm good at 'brainstorming'...we could private message to work on your ideas for your niche if you want. I guess I have so many ideas, I think everyone does. I so want to help you and let you know that you don't have to quit because you still have options. You have to write about your interests or your passions or both. That is what your niche is...whatever you're passionate about! Wishing you success!
Thank you for your response. I may take you up on your offer.