Trying to control everything is life is futile

You don’t have to know everything there are times you need to embrace the power of not knowing and stop trying to control everything in your life.

There are times when decisions need to be made before the outcome occurs.

You cannot control the future but you can work on being the best you can right now in the present moment.

The more positive you become, the more you let go of the uncertainly and fear, the better the outcome will become.

Most often you already created those uncertainties often before you even started, then you wonder why it didn’t go according to plan.

What happens then? You blame the system, blame others and never accept responsibility for your own actions

It is time to start owning yourself for a change if you want to go forward for whatever reason it may be.

This is the time to believe in yourself and in all you do.

Know that nothing in the future is a certainly but what you do now in the present moment is.

How you go about it and how you think will take to either there to your goals or away onto the side road on the dirt and hidden path to failure.

What you do is up to you no ifs or buts about it.

This is your life so live your life not one of another, that is their life be it a success or failure.

Life is a lesson and one of the lessons in life is to live in the present moment not to worry about what happens tomorrow or the next day or the days ahead.

The more open and creative you become the more you learn to expand life’s teachings. Regardless what that lesson is.

Sure you can plan ahead but stop stressing about what could happen if something goes wrong.

Sure there will be times in life mistakes may happen but that is one of life lessons.

There may be times you thought you tried but it didn’t go according to plan.

What plan?

Life doesn’t give you a blueprint but it does give you the choice to learn and move forward or even stay stagnant if you want a life like that.

The question is are you going to learn from what didn’t go right and fixed it so it doesn’t happen again or are you the one that gives up and continue to hope.

Hope may seem a nice thing to do at the time but it will not make it happen.

Action will make it happen and a positive one at that.

Dreams a nice but positive action will make your dream into a reality note hoping for it to happen.

Think of any mistakes or unplanned issues as your opportunity to get it right the next time you try but this time think about the errors research it ask questions but don’t rely on others to fix it for you on matters that you can simple do yourself.

This is your opportunity to go forward in life and allow yourself to live in the world of possibility and success.

Or you can continue to live in fear, do nothing, feel sorry for yourself and just hope in the meantime watch it all happen again over and over again.