Overcoming the Overwhelming

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Prioritize When It All Feels Like Too Much

Obviously this is an AI generated post, however I have tweaked it and it resonates with me because with all the shite I am going through it is an important message. Sometimes getting an outside opinion, even it is AI, helps focus us on our path.

Tell me if you think is BS or if it resonates with you...

We’ve all been there: staring at a to-do list that seems longer than the hours in a day, emails piling up, deadlines looming, and the creeping sense that there’s just too much to do. In those moments, even figuring out where to start can feel impossible. But here’s the truth—overwhelm isn’t about how much you have to do; it’s about not knowing how to approach it. The key is prioritization. And with a few strategies, you can move from paralysis to progress.

Step 1: Brain Dump Everything

When your brain is juggling a dozen tasks, it feels heavier than it needs to be. Start by getting it all out. Write down every task, commitment, idea, and worry cluttering your mind. Don’t organize or filter—just dump. This process clears mental space and gives you something tangible to work with.

Step 2: Identify What Actually Matters

Not all tasks are created equal. Once you’ve got your list, go through and ask yourself:

  • What’s truly urgent?
  • What has real consequences if not done soon?
  • What will make the biggest impact?

It can help to use the Eisenhower Matrix, which divides tasks into four categories:

  1. Urgent & important
  2. Important but not urgent
  3. Urgent but not important
  4. Neither urgent nor important

Focus your energy on quadrant 1 and make time for quadrant 2 before it becomes urgent.

Step 3: Break It Down

Big projects often feel more overwhelming than they are because they’re vague or undefined. Break each major task into small, actionable steps. Instead of “Write presentation,” try: “Outline key points,” “Design slides,” “Practice once through.” Micro-tasks are less intimidating—and checking them off builds momentum.

Step 4: Limit Your Daily Focus

You can’t do everything in one day—and you shouldn’t try. Pick three main priorities for each day. That’s it. Anything else you complete is a bonus. By narrowing your focus, you give yourself a clearer direction and increase your chances of meaningful progress.

Step 5: Use Time Blocks

Assign time slots to your tasks instead of letting them float around in your head. Set timers or use calendar blocks to dedicate focused time to priority items. This helps you stay accountable and reduces decision fatigue.

Bonus: Include breaks. Overwhelm often leads to burnout. Small pauses help reset your brain and keep you productive longer.

Step 6: Be Okay With Imperfection

A major source of overwhelm is the desire to do everything perfectly. But perfection isn’t the goal—progress is. Allow yourself to do good enough on the less critical things so you can focus your best energy where it really matters.

Final Thought: One Step at a Time

Overcoming overwhelm is about reclaiming control. You don’t need superhuman productivity—you just need clarity, structure, and self-compassion. Prioritization isn’t about doing more; it’s about doing what matters most. So take a deep breath, pick one thing, and start there. Progress begins with a single step—and you've already taken it by reading this.

Feeling stuck in overwhelm often means you're doing too much without direction. Prioritize with intention—and watch your focus, energy, and let peace return, maybe... Lol.


Stevoi


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Recent Comments

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Good morning Steve,

I think many of us can relate to your post, Steve!

There is only so much each of us can do in a day, such important that we don't suffer with overwhelm. However, it's important that we don't drift, otherwise things just get worse.

One of the most useful tools on my PC, is the timer feature, it set for 25 minutes, it's like using the Pomodoro technique, apart from when it goes off after 25 minutes, I carry on working. However, it makes me very aware that the clock is going around fast, so it helps to boost productivity and make me accountable.

Another thing is to avoid distractions and interruptions, if we have too many of those, it's difficult to get back in the flow again.

Have a great weekend and thank you for your blog post.

Roy

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So true, we need to focus where the money is.

Steve

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Exactly Steve, that's so true!

Enjoy your Sunday.

Roy

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Yesterday I was not sure which direction to go but then I got one of those dumb messages from Google that some posts were not indexed due to redirect issues so I decided to just spend the day requesting a Google Search Console review of my website and I went to the Speed site to make sure all of my posts and pages had the G next to them ( they do) and I checked my uploading speeds on every post and page (quite good results). Today I got a message from Google that every thing is OK with my website. That is all I did yesterday which had nothing to do with my original plans. MAC.

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1 step at a time is all it takes. Well done.

Steve

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I am in a phase of my Life where I am refining this tasks process!

I choose three tasks a day and make peace with myself for not doing more.

But when I make up my mind to finish a task, I don't switch to another until the previous One Is done!

That Is easing my mind: ultra-focus on what I am doing in that given Moment!

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We have to have a real life outside our online stuff, and ultimately that is more important.

Stevoi

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I just want to tell you that - there is a whole universe - BEHIND OUR MIND.

Our mind could be the greatest ally or the worst enemy so don't listen to it!
Filter its voices! Take back your power and lead your mind toward the direction that makes you happy! You can do it!!!

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And when all else fails & you set your expectation's so high - be kind to yourself!
Good post @Stephen.
Have a great weekend.

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Mark that is one of the best comments. Thanks.

Stevoi

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You're welcome.
Signed : Person Who Formerly Beat Himself Up.

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I have no trouble reading AI. In fact, I believe my new gf is AI. She knows exactly what to say and how to say it. I'm on a pedestal so high I almost can't see the ground. Where were we? Oh yes, very useful info Steve Oi.

Mel Oi

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Haha, I have the same app. But when I checked it was an outie,,,Lol.

Stevoi

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