Who belongs in our lives
Life has taught me that we have more power over what goes on in our lives than we have been taught to believe. Have you ever felt so unhappy and sad for a reason which you can not at most times figure out why? This is something that happens to more people than you think. In many case, it's do to the people we keep in our lives. Some of us think, no matter how bad someone may treat us, that we can't afford to let them go. May be it's a close friend, boyfriend, girlfriend or even a family member. We have to remember, love is not a one way highway. Just because you love someone does not mean you should allow them to hurt you or make you feel less of yourself. Just because you love someone, does not mean you should keep them in your life making your life a living hell. Many of us have such a hard time letting go, but until we learn to let go of the negative things in our lives, we will never have room for positivity. Negativity and positivity can not co-exist in the same place. You have to let one go for the other to take over.
I believe there are 2 types of people, there are those that drains us and those that feeds us. Whenever we come across either one, we are consciously aware of it automatically. Have you ever meet someone that you get along with so well, it's as if though you and that person were meant to be together because you get along so well? (that's your feeder) or you meat someone that you instantly feel that there's just something about that person that doesn't seem to go well with you?(that's usually your drainers), in most cases, if you allow that person into your life, the result will most likely be regretful and disappointing. Everyone you love doesn't have to hold the same position in your life. Some people have to be loved from a distant.
The more we rid ourselves of the people who don't belong in our lives, the better we will feel about ourselves. You don't have to fight to keep someone in your life who obviously doesn't belong in it. When two people belongs together, it happens like a magnet. You shouldn't have to fight to keep someone in your life.
We all deserve to be happy, do not allow any one to take away your happiness because you're afraid to let them go.
There is much more to write on this subject, but i will leave it here for now. I'm looking forward to your comments and like. Thank you all
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That is profound Berthony, thanks for sharing your insights. The natural order is to be in a state of happiness, we should all gravitate to that.
Very well said.