Lost as a Teen
Been there done that! I know what it's like to feel lost in this big wide world, to not feel loved and feel like a burden or just not fitting in. Then 'He' shows up. The promises are made.'He' will love you. 'He' will take care of you. 'He' will be there for you. 'He' will make you feel good. 'He' will clothe you. 'He' will feed you. 'He' will protect you. Sounds nice, doesn't it? Just what you are looking for. Comfort and love. 'He' seems like a fun person too. Why not? You're not getting any of those things from your family or friends. It's a wonderful thought... 'He' is. You feel loved by 'Him'. You feel like 'He' is the one. You feel on top of the world. You're in love. You would do anything for 'Him'. 'He' entices you into 'His' world. 'He' buys you clothes, and feeds you in nice places and gives you 'love'. Then when you're hooked, 'He' changes. 'He becomes sadistical. 'He' wants you to do things for 'Him' that you would never think of. But because there is that 'love' you have for 'Him', you do it. You hate what you're doing but you do it to show 'Him' that you love 'Him'. Then when you don't match what 'He' wants from you, 'He' (the one you 'love') begins to beat you. You accept it, thinking that you probably deserved it and you will "do better next time" What's next? You realize you don't want this but you can't get away for fear of your life. But you 'love' 'Him' even though 'He' beats you. 'He still shows you'love'. Keep an eye on this blog to learn more...
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Hi Wynette, a situation that is repeated far too often. Many do not have a voice, so the status quo remains.
You have shared an honest and powerful message.
So many are trapped without the strength or direction to be able to effect change their lives.
Just an observation, this would make a very helpful niche.
Alex.
That's what I want to do is help others 'over the hump' so to speak. I know where I've been and some of it is to just dig deep inside to find the answers. You'll find them.
I have just read it. It hurts indeed. But I admire your resilience, strength, and honesty. You are so brave in my sight! Yes, I want to read more! 💨💝💖
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This is true I have a friend that is not a teenager anymore she has been going through the same since her teenage years she is in her 30s but still takes the beatings.l will keep an eye on your blog.
Wow! I sure hope that she can get the help she needs. No one deserves to be treated like that. Once you get out of that type of lifestyle, you begin to slowly learn to love yourself. I've been there, done that. Today I want to help those who are in that position in life to get out. I don't know if you could direct her to me. Maybe?
The problem is she is very happy where she is she doesn't see anything wrong.And she is not on WA but l will get her to read weekends when I go check up on her. Thank you Wynette!
Maybe you can get her to read my two blogs. ;)
Yes I will thank you:)