Do some Heart Healing after a Divorce

byWillie31

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5 years ago

Before deciding to date again seek God for healing so you will be prepared for a healthy relationship. I have been through all of the senarios, healing after a divorce, not healing after a divorce, dating after a divorce and remarriage after divorce. All came with lessons, some good and some bad. Lessons have purpose, whether good or bad and the bad ones can work together for your good. It's all a matter of perception. Is the glass half full or is it half empty ? This may sound like a cliche but it's so very true. You have so much value and purpose and your are God's chosen vessel; you are wonderfully and fearfully made my sister. Romans 8-30 And those whom he predestined, he also called and those whom he called, he also justified and those whom he justified, he also glorified. So what you are going through now is not your final destination. God has so much waiting for you but take sometime and reflect and pray and ask God for healing and guidance. He has a plan for you, he knows what you need and he knows the desires of your heart. Jeremiah 29-11, For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. He has not forgotten you, the older generation used to say, "he knows the number of hairs on your head." Your time will come but don't rush it and cause a premature labor. You want your next delivery to be full term. You don't want jump at the wrong one and miss out on the right one because as women we sometimes get in a hurry and settle and think we can fix whatever is broken. We want to heal everyone but that is God's job. We think if we love enough and give enough that is the cure all, be all but you can't fix people; they must fix themselves. Yes, you are there to love and support them but you can't fix them. Sometimes because women are nurturers, we tend to pour until we are empty but you can't give from an empty cup. You must save some to cup your cup full. Heal from the last relationship before moving into a new one. Rest and bathe yourself in the healing hands of God. In time your love will blossom again and God will have prepared something beautiful just for you.