run your own race!
THE FIRST THING we must do to conquer any challenge is to get into a healthy competition with someone who guarantee our success. To do that, we must forget about competing with others. Competing with others only leads to a life of insanity and misery as we will forever have a false sense of ourselves. Think about it. The truth is that there will always be someone faster, slower, stronger, weaker, taller, shorter, skinnier, fatter, smarter, dumber, prettier, uglier . . . and the list goes on and on. But, let's take a look at what happens when we compete with someone else. Regardless of what characteristic you choose to compare, you will either have a false sense of superiority or inferiority depending on what side you view yourself. No. The only person you can honestly compare yourself with is the person you "used to be". Comparing yourself to the person you used to be enables you to improve yourself with certainty and confidence. So, set a goal and make a plan . . . but look only to yourself as to how well you are doing. After all . . . in a competition with yourself, you always win!
DREAM BIG!! In your life you can have anything you dream of. But, there is a gap between your dreams and reality, and bridging that gap takes work. All of the things you desire have a cost and you need to know now what those costs are so you can start on the right path that will enable you to afford the things you dream about today. If you want nice things you will need a good education and time to build the relationships necessary to have the career that will enable you to afford those things. Give it some serious thought and write down what you want.
Remember: Whatever your dreams or goals are . . . write them down!! If it isn't in writing it doesn't exist!!!
It is good to have you here, and I look forward to seeing your great success!!!
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Hello David...very well said. Surrounded ourselves with encouraging people is helpful but, as you said, the motivation and competition is really with ourselves. We have to want success...whatever that is for us.
Debbie
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Great blog. Jay
Thanks Jay. After just rereading it, I see that it could use several edits in grammar and punctuation. I thought I was being careful in my editing. Now I know why books have typos even after they go through several editors..
Perfection is the moment. Jay