These Next Three Steps Will Put The Walls Upon The Solid Foundation
Step 4 - We must learn to recognize when a person has the desire to learn more about something or someone for good. If you help to satisfy their desire, they will use what you told them to help in a good way.
Step 5 - We must know that in that moment of recognizing in step four, that the moment will come and go. We must not miss handle the moment. Because 90% of the time we will not get another chance to respond to their curiosity again. So, learn to be ready to respond to that curious moment so we don't miss the chance to help in a good and postived way.
Step 6 - Start practicing on recognizing when people are curios, how curious and why they are curious about something or someone. At first we need to just roll play by engage them as far as we can in the process, learning and getting as much as we can out of the exchange.
Example,I have had people ask me what I was going to do this Friday night I would think why are they curious about that. I would quickly think in a split second over things they had talk to me about in the passed few days. Because, they where waiting for my answer. I was even thinking if it would be a good thing to answer them.
If I know I have plans already, I could answer fast with, I have plans. Sometimes they would just tell me why they ask me or they would not tell me and say okay, and just walk off. Due to that, I did learn to add to the end of my answer, "I have plans,""why do you ask?" Then they would tell me. Depending on what they said, it would let me know how to respond to them farther.
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the sentence; These first three make up the foundation {and the next three (is walls but the roof.)} The part or parts I don't understand are in brackets. Do you actually mean; "but not the roof"?
As I read on that is what it appears you are trying to tell me. Is my thinking correct.
Thanks
Randy
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