We automatically see the possibility for things going wrong when we try something (especially something new) so to counteract that, we need to provide our consciousness with tangible evidence that things could go very right. We need to give our minds visual input to lend credibility to our attempts to succeed.

Two steps to a more positive mindset

When you're trying to achieve something and you're struggling to believe you can do it, follow these steps:

  • write three reasons that you're going to succeed, using positive language.
  • Write one anticipated positive outcome, starting with the words, "I expect".

For example, if I was trying to set up the SEO for a new blog post that I've written and I don't have much experience with SEO, I could do this:


  1. I've just reviewed the WA training about SEO for the page. I'm going to follow its points, one by one. It was written by experts. I will become an expert by emulating them.
  2. I believe I've written a really good post, full of relevant keywords for my target audience.
  3. I've written another piece of content that I can promote on Twitter, Facebook and Pinterest. Even if the SEO is less-effective, I cannot fail because I have provided the search engines with more content to index and attract traffic, regardless of the SEO values I've provided.

I expect that with each attempt at SEO, I will become more experienced with what works and what doesn't and each post I work on gives me a new opportunity to get better.


What I've done here is provided my mind with four positive statements about what I'm trying to achieve. I'm creating an expectation of success.

On the next page I'll show you another example, this time about writing a new post.



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mmonterola Premium
Very helpful and inspirational. Thanks! Marita
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Kettei Premium
You're welcome. I'm glad it was helpful. :)
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ChrisDE Premium
Great post, Phil! Thanks for that!!!
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Kettei Premium
You're welcome Chris - I hope it's helpful.
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Zappades Premium
Great work. we all need to learn to live without fear.

Fear is made to help us detect real dangers bur nowadays it has come to be a disease and tool to manipulate us.
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Kettei Premium
Thanks Stefan.

Fear truly is counter-productive in our modern lives and the more control we have over it, the more we can achieve.

Your observation was an interesting one. Fear is often used to manipulate us - insurance salesmen use it all the time!
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Zappades Premium
I think it's a great topic to talk about and many people will be touched.

But, always the buts, it is made a tabu theme. How is it easier to control people than making the important things a tabu.

You can make a great site with this, I won't read it, too much bad energy but opening the eyes of people is a heroic thing and very needed these days.
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CarlanderS Premium
I agree. Sometimes you have to step outside your comfort zone.
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Kettei Premium
I'm not sure it has to be all about bad energy.

Overcoming our pre-programmed misconceptions in order to become successful can be a very positive process!

It seems many of us are leaving the lives we could have on the table because we keep doing what we've always done.
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Kettei Premium
Totally - the only way to achieve a life of comfort is to stop being comfortable with life!

It's amazing the pressure we feel to stay in our comfort zones when we try to step out of them too!
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Zappades Premium
You're right, the process and from there on is positive.

I wish more people would overcome fear and try something new, something they are passionate about.
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