Im feeling a bit frustrated

Hello Everyone-

I haven't been on here too much in the last few days because I am completely frustrated with WA. My website was completely done and ready to go live, then guess what happens, it disappears. Lone behold for some reason there was something wrong with one of my plugins. I was told to deactivate and activate each one to see which one was the issue. That is when my site disappeared. I spent almost 2 days trying to get help on it and get it restored. When they tried restoring it, it was an old one that has nothing on it and all my contents were completely missing. They end up telling me that they couldn't restore the other one that I worked so hard on for weeks on end. Needless to say I cried. I was wondering how something like this can happen. After that happened, I decided to try one more time and after that I don't know what I am going to do.

I got up yesterday and started a new site and contents at 6am. Just to get ahead. Everything was going good until today. I got a message across all my websites saying that Wordpress Cron was disabled. They told me that it was turned back on and to check my sites to see if they worked. Well Guess What, my site is gone:(. I don't know if anyone has ever had this happened to them but word of advice to everyone that is new, GET A BACKUP on Wordpress. This way it doesn't happen to you. I'm sorry if I am rambling on too much but I don't want this to happen to others. I wasn't told to get a backup system and this what happens. You live and learn and move on. I guess its back to the drawing board and start again