Successful and victorious.

Yesterday morning I heard someone say: "successful people are so focused on their business that their do not have time to look others people business" and "is lonely at the top because not everybody can handle your victory and your success"
Let's analyze those phrases or whatever you would like to call. At first, I got offended, think how this person has been rude, but some minutes later I started paying attention to the person explanation and I changed my opinion about.
On the first phrase, the explanation was how some people Kerr too much about what others doing, that their forgot to learn new strategies, go thru new training, change and move things around so their business prospered, grow, be established, etc, etc, etc. Those kind people will not succeed because their are not focused, not prepared, not work hard enough and kept saying: "why the other guy is so prosperous and I am not?"
Successful people do everything very different. They don't have time to look, other people, life, work, business. They keep work hard, having strategies and plan for the future.
The second phrase, the explanation was that lots people see others on top of something, like been successful as well, and their decide to not fight anymore, their can not handle other peoples victory and their give up despite getting their hand on the dirty and get their own success, own victory is way is just some people that get and stay at the top.
My conclusion is: both phrases have something in common. Both talk about victory and giving up; success and leting go.
We can reverse this picture, we can take other people success and victory as an example to go after what we want. Even if we have to work harder, go thru our training twice because sometimes we do not understand the first time (not helping? Maybe 3 times), have perseverance in excess and be patients four times more than the normal; these actions will change everything and make us SUCCESSFUL and VICTORIOUS.
Thank you for reading my blog.
Great reminder!
We can actually learn from what other people have done and are doing that made them successful. But in order for us to succeed, we also need to focus on what we are doing.
You're absolutely right; successful people do things differently and that is why we have to find out what works best for us, not just copy what's effective for others.
To our success and victory!
Alice