Find your Y!

Last Update: Sep 20, 2023

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At some point in our life, we reflect on the purpose of our existence. We always hear the phrase, "You are here for a reason". For once, we need to clear the enigma of our existence. Is there really such a thing?

Life is like a big puzzle, and we're all a part of it. No matter where we come from or where we live, there's one thing we all wonder about: Why are we here? It's like trying to find the missing piece in this puzzle of life.

Imagine, for a moment, a young, wide-eyed child. Their imagination knows no bounds. They dream of becoming astronauts, unicorns, or perhaps even astronauts riding unicorns through the cosmos. These dreams, however fantastical, are their "Y." They embody the purity of purpose. But as we grow older, something curious happens. Our dreams often get entangled in the web of reality, like that time when my friend Bob decided to chase his dream of becoming a world-class unicycle juggler. He soon realized that it wasn't as easy as it looked, especially with his penchant for tripping over his own feet.

But here's the thing – finding your "Y" is not about clinging to the whims of childhood fantasies. It's about peeling away the layers of societal expectations, peer pressure, and self-doubt to uncover the essence of what truly drives you. It's about rediscovering the childlike wonder that once fueled your dreams and breathing life into it once more.

Take the story of Mary, who, after years of toiling in a job that left her feeling like a hamster on a never-ending wheel, decided to embark on a journey of self-discovery. She had always been drawn to the world of culinary arts, and so, she enrolled in a cooking class. It was as if she had stumbled upon a long-lost treasure chest of passion. Mary's "Y" was found amidst a swirl of spices and a symphony of flavors, and she soon opened her own restaurant, delighting patrons with her culinary creations.

But finding your "Y" isn't always about discovering new passions. Sometimes, it's about realizing that what you've been doing all along is aligned with your purpose. Take John, for instance, who spent years crunching numbers as an accountant. One day, it dawned on him that his meticulous attention to detail and love for order and structure were his "Y." He transformed his mundane job into a thriving consulting business, helping others streamline their finances with the same precision he'd used for years.

In the end, finding your "Y" is not a destination but a journey – a lifelong expedition filled with unexpected twists and turns. It's about embracing the essence of who you are, the quirks that make you, well, you. It's about chasing dreams, even if they seem as elusive as a unicorn in outer space.

My dear friend on this journey through life, here's a simple idea to ponder: In a world full of questions, figuring out your "Y" is like finding the answer you've always wanted. You can find it in things like reading a good book, enjoying a delicious meal, listening to beautiful music, or being with the people you care about. Your "Y" is like a guiding light that helps you navigate the twists and turns of life. So, don't forget to embrace it, celebrate it, and let it shine because when you discover your "Y," you'll uncover the real magic of being alive.

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Absolutely loved this one Maria. The late, and very great, Dr. Wayne Dyer talked about this very same point in his book "Inspiration - Your Ultimate Calling". If you can find that which you love doing so much that it doesn't amount to work you have found your why and, as you have eloquently pointed out you 'uncover the real magic'. Nicely done!

Appreciate your kind affirmation and clever insight of this post.

I agree with Dr. Wayne Dryer 100% . Doing something you love to do isn’t classified as work!

Have a fantastic weekend Grant!

Cheers,
Maria 🌹

Thank you...you as well Maria!

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Heya, Maria,

Thank you for sharing your post related to finding the "Y" of our life. This was a delightful read, and I absorbed so much. The phrase that stood out most for me "It's about peeling away the layers of societal expectations, peer pressure, and self-doubt to uncover the essence of what truly drives you" really spoke to me. This very deep, my friend.

Happy Wednesday!
Rache;e❤️

If you find your Y, embrace it, celebrate it, and let it shine!

Uncover the magic of being alive Rachele!

Cheers,
Maria 🌹

Absolutely!🎀

Hi Maria

If we’re not happy in life, we have to ask “Y!??”

I live by these 5 simple things:
Appreciate family and friends.
Help as many people as possible.
Don’t chase fame and fortune.
Create a comfortable income.
Enjoy life and have fun to the max.

They have served me pretty well throughout the years! 😎

Rock On! 🤘
Frank 🎸

You have found your Y Frankie🎸😎!!!

You have strummed your Y and had achieved a pretty gratifying existence!

So, continue strumming the joys of living! Keep rockin’

Cheers,
Maria 🌹

Thanks, Maria! 🙏

You have done the same! 👍

Rock On! 🤘
Frank 🎸

Hahahaha! Side by side we’ll continue stride and keep strumming and rocking along Frankie 🎸😎

It sounds like an excellent plan, Maria! 👍 👍 😎

Frank 🤘🎸

Great minds think alike! 🤔

Yes, they DO, Maria! 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 😎🎸

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Finding your Why takes work. To do so, to peel away all of those resistances, you must keep asking 'why' until you arrive at your reason for what you do.

This is somethingwe can ask ourselves as affiliate marketers, why. Why are we doing this...

I think you will find a deeper meaning if you can ask yourself 7 times 'Why'.

That's what I've learned, that it takes 7 whys to find the answer for what you do.

By doing so, you will peel away the layers and perhaps see a new value to what you do, or even validate the path you are already on.


Rudy

As you peel away peer pressure, social expectations, you uncover the true value of what you do!

Life is an endless expedition with unexpected twists and turns! Embrace the essence of who you are, and validate your path!

Uncover the real magic of being alive!

Cheers,
Maria 🌹

Beautiful, Maria. Thank you for sharing!

Myra 💜

Peel away social expectations, and uncover the essence of what truly drives you! What fuels your dream!

Cheers,
Maria 🌹

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