Paradigm shift and being stuck in "niche choosing"

Last Update: June 25, 2015

I had a niche in mind before i joined the Wealthy Affiliate. The difficulty was that i could not narrow it down and was really struggling for quite some time. Oh, i was so attached to that particular idea i would not let it go. I was searching and searching.... until one day I woke up and had something totally different in mind - a hobby of mine that suddenly felt "just right" to start with. It was a paradigm shift! A new reality that was there all along i was just too obsessed with the old one to actually notice! A new set of glasses now presented to me an opportunity which my old set completely bypassed.

Our established views of what is and what isn't can permit us to function in the world along certain internal guidelines and set of rules "what my reality is", but can also restrict our vision of what can be out there under our noses, staring us in the face. If we allow ourselves to let go and venture into the "anomaly" that suddenly appears and is stubbornly refusing to fit into the old paradigm, we can step beyond the previous horizon and discover that the Universe we have been living in is some "other Universe".

What was invisible and obscured before now seems to be everywhere and the new reality seems to be filled with evidence for the new paradigm! How come i did not see it before?! "But i looked here many times!" My life has not changed, my room still looks the same - but things have popped up where before was an empty space!

If anyone out there is stuck with the niche don't be afraid to explore - we are multifaceted beings: there is more to us that meets the eye (especially our own eye)! You never know your new niche might be staring you in the face, just waiting for that tiny shift in perception of your own life. :-)

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DavePage Premium
Very good blog, do you study Bob Proctor at all?
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allchristie Premium
Milena - I like visiting another me, in a parallel universe by quantum jumping. The other versions of me are often brighter, smarter, more successful, more talented. They offer advice and solutions, because I go to listen, not to debate. Aha moments put you in touch with another you. Your writing is compelling. Larry
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MLozanova Premium
Hi Larry, you might be surprised how much your other YOUs are also learning from you in this Universe! ☺
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izzo79 Premium
great experience to share Milena and thanks for that. Sometimes is a matter of waiting or letting the right "click" coming up to the conscious mind when we are not expecting that can make the difference..I read few things about this capability of our subconscious mind to let us drive towards answers while spleeping or when our mind is busy not thinking for the answer we desperately want. I feel quite the same situation as you were before at the moment. I'm still wearing my "old" glasses and still think about the old niche which I can't narrow down. I need to calm down to let natural process flow...finger cross for me! ;)
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MLozanova Premium
Will fingers cross for you! It will happen sometimes when you least expect it! The subconscious already knows what to do, its just a matter of silencing the active conscious mind and the answer underneath will shine through☺
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TerrBarr Premium
Thank you Milena, Great article and so true . We all hang on to the most weird things to hold us back. Letting go is paramount for us to keep discovering.
Cheers
Terry
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MLozanova Premium
Thank you, Terry!
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TonyMonzon Premium
hi MLozanova, i invite you to check out my training. I have made a training module for picking the best niche. Go to my profile and look under training. Hope this helps.
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