Time to kill the monsters living under my bed
Why?
I don't really know... I could say I am bit scared of interactions with people, I am scared what I say or publish or comment someone will see as silly... I have a vision that once I publish something all my friends and colleagues, everyone will see this and will find out that I am silly person, that I have said something really stupid.
I don't know whether there is anyone similar on WA. If so, you can imagine how difficult and challenging that kind of job is for me. Being online marketer, writing to people, talking to people.... ughhhh .... well ... I would simply say it is definitely not easy for me and I don't know whether I will ever really progress in this and find it enjoyable.
But
It is a time to kill the monsters living under my bed!!!
I have to try everything to finally find my own way for working from home, be free from bosses, be able to manage my time, be able to work for living not live for working.
I did my very first step. I created account on WA and I even published my picture (!). I am just writing my very first post and I hope I will publish it :-)
So if I can do this I am sure everyone can.
All the best for all of you for the New Year!
Whatever your monster is ... kill it in 2013!
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Welcome Lunia, l like your guts and this is the perfect place find a space where you'll always be welcome.
But silly is cool and you know what we only have so long here on Earth and do all you can. No need to be afraid of what people think really. You seem like a nice girl in writing at least so what the heck jump out there and kill the monsters under your bed girl. I used to be shy growing up but you would never know that now if you spoke to me.
Way to go! Stomp all over those monsters. You've already taken the hardest step-the first one. You can do this and make those things happen!
I definitely feel your pain, it's not easy speaking up in this environment when so much is unknown. I've been working on killing similar monsters for a while, WA is a good place to do that and everyday gets easier.
It's great that you enjoy this, that'll get you through the tough days.
Ask questions when you need help and don't give up. :)
I totally agree with Ceja 007, just dive out there and do it. You already look like a star!
Lunia...
Hello Ladylove...I am also new here and pondering whether to stay. Have a lot of irons in the fire right now. You precious are just too worried about what others may think. Pleeze don't. How cheap are others opinions?...Well they are free, here in America. So go right ahead and SAY WHAT YOU WANNA SAY AND BE WHO YOU DARE TO BE. And with that gorgeous smile, you shall be just fine. Try it today. Be a little silly. I have a child's heart and friends and family just point me out as being a lil' different and go n about theiir way. You'll be just dandy!
Kisses...
Thank you guys for your comments. Yes, when you finally start and keep writing it is getting easier like everything we do. But because internet is open, everyone can write, there is so many people just writing for the sake of writing, for just being noticed in the net although they have really nothing to say ... I wouldn't like to become another one and that's why I have still mixed feelings about it.
Lunia, whether you think so now, or not, your thoughts and viewpoints are of value. You seem very intelligient, just a bit bashful and backward with this internet situation. Frankly, you do not look like a gal who just spits out ramdom thoughts without thinking, so I feel you should look at a few topics and tell us what you think about them. I have a feeling you will blossom into a very good writer and as you publish each article, you will expand and grow and that 'monster under your bed' will be no more! I have four children and four grandchildren and I tend to be on mark when it comes to people. I agree your smile is a great asset and should give you more confidence. No one at WA will make you feel silly, just write and blog and get more experience. You will do fine!
Nice post! I am often the same way...or used to be, I should say...just follow silently and never used to say a word. Since starting here though, it has gotten easier. I guess practice does make perfect!
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i really like your honesty it's not always easy to share.