The Spouse Between Us.
Frankly, so many things fight for my time, in ways I always think it is the mis-planning of my self more than anything. Total fruit of careless abandonment!!.
I don't think I am alone in this struggle. There is a saying in my language that translates as 'the things I hate, are the ones that overwhelm me, but those that I should do, I abandon'. Is it not concerning that I should be engaged with something I hate doing?.
Strangely, I tend to throw accusing stones outside, rarely looking at it from within. Ordinarily, because I think I am not the cause, I worry not, but the situation fail to go away. That's what confronts me.
I have come to the conclusion that I am not alone in this situation, and that many of us face this situation daily, and my answer to this issue is that, it is the spouse between us that is the cause. I hear you ask, "the spouse!!!?" Yes, the spouse.
Do you notice that at the Wealthy Affiliate platform, as you begin going through the OEC lessons and you find your acts together, and the excitement of the possible outcomes sink in, several things do come up unconsciously to morsel out your ability to think right and to do the right things. Let me give you an example of the spouse between me and WA.
As I got unto the platform and listen to views and encouraging statements from the platform, I instantly knew I was in the right place. My mind began to accept the new possibility, not without getting the thrills of success taking me over. So sometimes I think it is taking too long to get the 'perfect' niche, these are techie stuff, losing sleepless nights, afraid of failing due to content writing and competition, and missing webinar lectures, and not being bold to expose my weaknesses.
Do you appreciate these things that come to "marry you out" of the possible right attitudes you need to nurture to succeed i.e. cool head, patience, allowing the understanding of the lessons first, developing the nag for content writing and blogging, sharing and asking questions. Being easy and following your own time table and plan of action.
We must not marry what we hate, and despise what we love. Only the spouse between us can do that!!!! Cheers.
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Wow, very interesting insight, this needs to be read twice, once for curiosity, and a second time for clarity. I like it. Thank you!