Feeling Lost, finding it hard to focus after two months break..
I have come back after two months break due to deaths of two close relatives and finding it very hard to focus. I have tried to come back before but just couldn't focus enough to stay on here. I am wondering if anyone else had the same problem?
The deaths were really unexpected as they were only middle aged, one was my brother-in-law who was like an older brother to me. Another, my maternal youngest Uncle was also very close to me and my Mum. I know life goes on, and they are in a better place but still keep thinking about it and can't focus or get myself motivated anymore...
Thanks for listening
Kay
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Hi Kay. Sorry to hear about your loss. I know it's very hard to cope in situations like these. I had two close family members who were very ill at the same time. One my Mom and the other my brother they discovered a tumor on his brain. It shook me up real bad. When I'm feeling down, my go to place is to listen to some of the greatest minds of our time. I find it very comforting to listen to these incredible motivational speakers. Try listening to HayHouse radio - hayhouseradio.com. It might help you refocus. Find a topic that's to your liking.
Hello Kay...it's hard to refocus after the loss of those nearest to you. I know because I recently lost both of my parents in a five week time period. The grieving process is different for everyone...so don't beat yourself up for not being able to focus...when you are ready it will happen. When you are ready honor the loss of your brother-in-law and Uncle by building a successful business...because you know that is what they would want for you. Don't give up! Best of luck.
Jeff
Hi Jeff, that is even more hard on us when the tragedies happen within weeks, you can't manage to get out of one & another one hits you and I can understand it must have been hard for you. Thank you for sharing & thanks for the advice, I will try my best not to give up.
Kay
Hi Kay...lean on the WA community during this difficult time. So many great individuals willing to help. Stay in touch.
Jerff
Finding focus can be tough. Maybe if you start with something easy, you can get back to where you were. Re-do the beginner courses, even if you just skim them. It will refresh your memory, and help you get a better vision of where you are taking your business.
I think you will know when you are ready. It just may take more time for you. Perhaps try some baby steps and see how that goes. Glyn
I think you're right, I will try slowly to do little things then I might know when I'm ready. And I think this was the start of it, getting motivations from all the lovely friends at WA. Thank you
Grief is a very personal, private journey and different for everyone. It takes as much time as it needs to take. I have days when I can't focus so understand.
On those days I'll complete one small task related to website, maybe spend some time in WA chat, reading and answering questions and blogs, so I keep learning and moving forward.
The focus will come back, just don't beat yourself up about it.
Thinking of you and your family, it's a difficult time you're going through.
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Hi kay,
So sorry to hear about your loss, time does make it easier. I know it doesnt seem so right now but it will. You are in my prayers and will keep you and your family though. I recentally lost my step-son was very difficult as he was a year younger then me, yep his Dad was a lot older almost 21 years in fact and we just lost him two years ago. But time does heal all things. I also am following you. God's speed Kay.
Diana