No room for negativity! Please Stop!
I'll never understand how some people can live every day of their life so negative, and find fault in everyone but themselves. It breaks my heart.
This business is so hard as it is, that's why we're here. To support each other. To lean on each other. To learn from each other. For some people, Wealthy Affiliate is the one place that they find any kind of support. I can't remember who coined the phrase 'WAmily' but I find the word fitting.
Kyle and Carson (and many others) work extremely hard to keep this community going strong, and support each and every one of us... even those that are trying to sabotage us 😪
I'll be one of the first to admit it, I'm finding it hard to be positive lately, but I find at least one thing every day.
I'm certainly not ambassador status, but I'd like to think that I help others in my own way ( I like to help people feel better about themselves, and always strive for their best!)
I'm sure I'll get reported as well, because all of my posts aren't about 'work', but it is what it is. I just had to say it.
I wish each of you reading this a wonderful day, week, month, and year (and beyond)! (Even the negative Nellies) Life is too short. Hold on to the positive!
-Haze
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Haze,
I have heard that there are some people (P1) that can't be happy unless they see someone else unhappy (P2), and the more P2 is miserable the happier P1 is. These are negative people.
As the saying goes, "Winner's never quit and quitters never win."
Don't waste your time about why they are losers. Not all wealthy people are winners and not all poor people are losers.
Those with a heart, rich or poor, is a winner no matter what. Since negative people bothers you I have to believe you have a heart, a heart of gold, a true winner.
Curt
thank you, Curt. And unfortunately, there are too many P1's in the world :(
Also, thank you for the kind words.
Have an awesome day!
~Haze
Im sorry you're having a rough patch. This too will pass, as my mamma used say. I say, block negative remarks from your mind. Stay focused, keep your eye on the ball and grab that ball and run. TOUCHDOWN! Its yours for the taking. Smile sweetie and have a good evening
Thank you! It's just that this morning was quite colorful in here, I'll just say that. But I guess we all have those times, and thank you again.
Have a good evening as well. :)
~Haze
It's interesting isn't it.
I have found with the difficulties going on in the world that many have taken time to reflect on the positives, and to be thankful for things they do have and to focus on the things that matter. I know that is what has helped me get through months of strict lockdown. In some ways, the pandemic has been able to bring about positive change for those who were open to it. I like to think that I'm included in that.
I agree - hold on to the positive. Life is too short.
All work and no play is dull!
Have a great day Haze.
Cheers
Melissa
I agree, Melissa. It has held quite a few people 'together' over the past months.
You have a great day as well!
~Haze
I agree totally Haze. We sometimes have enough trouble just keeping our own negative thoughts at bay without having to fend of those of others. But we are a community and if someone is in difficulties then we should help and offer support until they are sorted.
However, when a person is maliciously spreading negativity, then that is a different matter altogether and that should be kept away from the site.
If they need help I will help, gladly - but if they just want to sabotage my efforts for the fun of it, then there is always the unfollow option.
Bux
Bux, I'm not even following this person 🤣
But thankfully we have WAY more good people here than not. You guys are great!
Have a great day!
~Haze
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I have a neighbor that is really in bad health so I go over and clear his driveway from snow for him, shovel off his step so he can get out when he is feeling well enough to move.
Every time I go over there he is full of complaints about the whole world around him. He is very thankful for what I do but seems to be always favoring the negative things in life.
Trust me it takes a LOT not to say something like "shut the f up, it's a beautiful world if you just look for it" or something like that. But I don't...
Couple of days ago the 18" of snow got him started and then it was the plow that seems to be against him.
Instead of replying back negatively I just talked about what the a great visit I had with the grandkids. We spent the most of the day playing in the snow and making a snowman. It was a great day out in the snow with the kids.
That seemed to lift his spirit up a bit and even started to talk about his grandkids. I know it's short lived but I believe it does help a lot.
Most people run away from these negative people but the truth is they are suffering from some something that is caused them to be like that.
I love this! I want to say that soooooooo badly it hurts, lol.
Nice way to spin it around, if only for a bit.
Thank you!
Have a great day!
~Haze
Positivity is always the key, Rick! Very well done!
Jeff