2021 will be.

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A new year. As almost everyone I know was celebrating, I was talking to my uncle, in tears. I know this will have been the last time I talk to him, as hospice came last week. I've lost a few loved ones in such a short amount of time, it's getting ridiculous.

Not to post utter gloom and doom here. Just facing facts. Reading through all of your posts, 2020 was rough to say the least.

A lot of losses, both personal and businesses, but we are still here. We have purpose. We have strength together, to hold each other up through thick and thin.

I have somehow lost my way yet again, but I am back again (again). Will this ever change? Hopefully.

I am going through different blogs and figuring out how to make a schedule for myself that I KNOW that I will stick to. If I've learned anything from the past, it takes doing something every day. Just one thing, no matter how small. But SOMETHING. Every day.

As I reviewed my bio, it seems that I have a terrible pattern that I have to break. I will do that this year. Times have changed, the way we do things have changed, but reality has not.

I want to make my family proud of me, I want to make ME proud of me. I know that I have what it takes, and I have to sit down a take a long, hard look at what I'm doing. And then I have to adjust that so that I will become successful.

as my husband may not have a job come next week, I really do have to put on my big girl pants and buckle down. This is it.

I have watched a few of you start your journeys and are kicking butt... I am so very proud of you!

I am going to dig through posts and find ideas that I haven't thought of before. I will try doing some things the same, and some quite different.

I will come up with a realistic plan. I will make a daily and weekly list of some sort.

I am going to continue with the website that I currently have, although I just went through and got rid of all of the spam telling me that my domain is expiring, and I have to click this link to renew it right now or they will take it down. (I still don't understand how people can do this, and still be able to sleep at night...)

But I am going to clean that up and I think I am going to go a different route. I am going to do the affiliate boot camp. It will put a spin on things for me, and I will incorporate some of those things into my current site.

just another reminder that every day is different, every day is a gift. Even though we don't know what it will have in store for us, we can get through it. We have a choice... we can waste it away and regret it the next day, or we can do something.. and be proud that we've done it. I chose the second.

I will make a vision board, but only for this year alone. I will make a list of things that I want to accomplish. As for setting a time limit, I won't do that. The reason is, is that I know myself too well. A general time limit is what I will do, but if I have to hold up to a certain deadline, I get super frustrated and quit. I'm not going to do that this time. What works for one doesn't work for everyone. I think that you really have to look deep down and figure out who you are and how you work. Many people won't agree with me, but that's just how I see things right now.

There is no certain tomorrow, and possibly from watching too many Christmas movies, I have learned that the past has passed, the future is to be unseen, and today is the present. Use it as a present. And that's what I'm going to do. Start living in the present. As life is indeed a gift. What we choose do so with that gift is up to us, and only us.

with that, I will end this post, and wish anyone who reads this an awesome 'present'. Be kind, especially to yourself. You deserve it.

-Haze

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Each new day is a new chance to turn things around. Praying that your husband is not off work long and that everything will work out for you and your family.
Ray

thank you, Ray. been doing some soul searching today, and definitely. each day is a new beginning. And thank you. I hope that it does as well!

Have an awesome day!
~Haze

That was from the heart, Haze, those times of reflection can help us determine where we want to be and also the changes we need to make to get there.

You have got to the point where it is make or break, back yourself this year and make it happen.

Best wishes, I believe that you will make it happen.
Alex

Thank you, Alex. It is definitely time. As going back to 'work' is no longer an option, I'll make this work. I just gotta get'er done! ;)

Have an awesome day!
~Haze

Sometimes when the options are slim we can do our best work.

Looking inward is always good Haze because that is where the real you is. I firmly believe we create our own reality via our thoughts and choices we make.
Don't dwell on past habits, you are no longer that person. The past has taught you what not to do, so you can move towards the future with confidence.
Wishing you a healthy, prosperous and Happy New Year.

Thank you, Linda. That really means a lot. Self-confidence isn't a strong point of mine, although the man I used to write for told me that constantly. But today is the first step of many, and I wish you a wonderful new year also!

~Haze

When we get told something repeatedly it goes in and becomes part of us.
I have watched YouTube videos and have done courses by Marisa Peer. She states that one of the main things that holds people back comes down to them not feeling good enough.
I am reading her book 'I am Enough'. It is interesting and has helped a lot of people with lack of self confidence, anxiety and much more..

I know that your post reflected a great deal of what I feel and work through from time to time. Thanks so much for sharing.

Thank you. It is good to know that there is someone out there who gets through these times. I know, we all do, but it's just nice to know. Thank you,

Have an awesome day~!
~Haze

Thanks for sharing your heart. What a tough year! A lot of emotions!

We do wish you strength emotionally and physically as you seek to make WA work for you. Always remember, ask questions so you can keep moving forward. Success is urgent for you.

Do take care

Thank you. I will definitely be asking many questions, as I have never done the affiliate bootcamp yet. It may be very much like the other training, I'm looking forward to it.
Have an awesome day!

~Haze

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