My wife is my best friend

byfinger7

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Updated 11 years ago

Approximately fourteen years ago on December the 20th I got married to a beautiful young lady by the name of Moya Morgan, now Moya Tracey. It was a wonderful day for us as the event was well attended by family and friends and to top it off the MC was my very own family doctor. Didn't know he was such a Mr. Personality, but should have guessed because he has to deal with people everyday.

Before I got married I use to hear a lot of myths about marriage some good and some bad, but I was and still a an avid believer in the good ones. Married life is not easy there are good days and bad days. I was told that all marriages go through a seven year test, if your marriage should pass that seven years then your marriage will stand on solid ground.

The seven years in my marriage was rough and I have to admit that most of it was my fault and I am not proud of it at all. My wife being a christian fought to keep her marriage together and some times she cried. After a while I realize how much she was hurting and I pray to the father to help me curve my ways. Our son as young as he was at the age of eight saw the struggles and begged us not to break up. This kind of intervention from such a young person brought tears to my eyes.

However today I am happy to say that my marriage is alive and well. We fought(not literally) to keep our marriage together and we prevailed. Nothing could have been accomplished without communication. Communication is the key to any relationship and I mean any relationship. Today my wife and I are experiencing the life of a good and happy marriage. She has become and will always be my best friend. We communicate a lot and we practice being loving around our children, because children live what they learn. I cannot see a life without my wife. Before I do any thing I always consult her first and I feel comfortable sharing anything with her no matter how private it is. After all she is my wife and if I cant trust my wife who am I going to trust.

Moya plans to migrate soon to seek business venture in Canada and every time I think about her leaving, I find myself crying. That is how strong the bound is between as now. I don't want her to go but I know its for the betterment of the family. I will miss her when the time comes and I always tell her I love her every time I get the chance.

Our son has realize the change and he is a much better person now and he is very loving. He runs to me when he sees me come home and we both miss Moya when she is not around.

I want to leave you with this. You do not hurt someone without hurting yourself first. It might not happen right away. It might take a day, a month, a year, but one day it will catch up with you and you are going to find yourself crying a lot. I cannot emphasize enough that communication is the best policy. Whatever the problem is communicate, communicate, communicate. Be kind loving and gentle around the children, they watch a lot and if there is problem in the marriage it will affect them and they in turn will live what they learn. Most of the times things go bad in a relationship the people who it affects the most are normally the children.

So go ahead enjoy your marriage. Tell your wife you love her every time you get the chance and your marriage will last forever and the children will grow to better people in society.