A little insight into the life of ME!
So, before I start I want to thank you, for taking the time to read 'My Story'.
As everyone has a story but, this is mine.
When I was a child, my Parents split up when I was (9) and, as an effect of this I resorted to self exclusion, self hate, depression and anxiety. I never had an outlet, a place of comfort, as my Mum, as She was dealing with her own personal issues, while trying to put food on the table for us 3 growing boys. We never spoke about it, it was brushed under the table as if my own Father, was never in our lives. At 16 years of age I was forced to leave home, Yes at 16 years old I had nowhere to live, that was only 10 Years ago but, it feels a lot longer to me. During this time I was exposed to experiences that I would never wish on anyone. But, as a result I was exposed sexual abuse, violence, drugs, homelessness and, alcohol abuse. Going through the 7 Years of what felt like hell, I never knew that my situation would change, I felt like I was stuck there, like I was never going to get out. I had never seen what great wonders that life has to offer. But, one day everything changed, as of Yesterday, exactly 3 Years ago, I met the most beautiful girl of my entire life my, Fiance', Danielle, and that was when everything shifted, my life began!. I found 'Clarity' I found a new direction, and slowly everything started to unfold.
So here I am today, a 26 Year old Male, living in the Western Suburbs of Sydney. Today my life changes, today I say yes to the things that I want in my life. I am taking control of my destiny! By the way, Who doesn't want to be driving a 2016 Lamborghini Hurucan Spyder!! I know that I do!.
Anyway, back to My life goal. Within the next 3 Years I want to have a community center established for adolescent teenagers or, young Adults. As a part of this community it will provide access. Whether they are experiencing a very difficult time in their life. If that may be they are experiencing homelessness, abuse or, they just need somewhere to escape (I have ideas that I want to incorporate within this community). As I progress I want to start speaking at seminars and, live events. I am only just starting to expand, but I have some big plans and I am ready for any new challenges. And I accept all the help I can get, because you never know what you might learn.
Please feel free to PM me or post a comment, I would love to hear from you and, hear your story!
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Your post is inspirational. It proves that anyone can overcome adversity. The avenue you followed is not entirely clear but I am sure it was not without hardship and frustration. yet, you were able to find something that set you on the straight and narrow.
Intelligent individuals can clearly see the path they are on and how to reset their life path. It may be one situation or contact with someone that assist you to find the clarity, as you state, an move on with their lives.
I am a step father to 2 beautiful ladies and when I joined their lives I was intent on making sure that their needs would always be met. My wife and I agreed from the outset that we would do whatever it took to make sure 'our' girls made it in life. As I stated to my then fiancee, I did not divorce your ex-husband, you did. And to that end it was my goal to make sure the relationship between he and I was always cordial and in the benefit of the girls. Today we can say we are very good friends and in fact I look to him as a brother. Even his parents adopted me as one of their own because they recognized that I was about the girls.
I state my story because it shows another path for split families. Hate, rebellion and self doubt are normal in teenagers as they adjust to adulthood. They are going through many changes both physically and mentally. Your hardship was an extreme that you chose to take. You always had a choice.
It is wonderful that you found your way back and let's see that the powers that be look over you as you continue down the path of love and friendship.