Is Failure Real?
The first that I am going to say is that FAILURE IS VERY REAL.
I am also going to say that FAILURE ONLY EXIST IF YOU QUIT.
There are millions of people who do not succeed at what they are doing every single day but they do not all fail. I firmly believe that failure is optional. Just because you didn't succeed at something at a single moment doesn't mean that you fail, if you choose to give up at that point that would be the only way that you would truly fail. If you choose to keep going then this little bump in the road was only a lesson learned while on your way to success. Don't ever forget that every single millionaire and billionaire didn't succeed at everything, they too faced some bumps in the road but that lead them to their ultimate success.
Always remember that you can't someone who never gives up, so be that person who never gives up and nothing will be able to stop you.
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Absolutely, Derron.
Failure is something that we view ourselves as. We have successes every day, but we may not actually see them, simply because we are too focused on what we want our end result to be.
Goals are great to have, and I think they are necessary to build a path to where we want to to go. But if we try to live in the moment as much as possible and see every step as a necessary part of our journey, we will soon be viewing our results very differently.
Sometimes we get too caught up in labelling our results as 'failures' or 'successes'. When we learn that no matter what our experiences are, they are all part of our journey, we can view results as being part of our learning process. And what a wonderful gift, learning is!
We are all very fortunate to be leaning at any time. Setbacks are a necessary part of learning. When we have a setback, our focus is actually sharpened and therefore our memory is more efficient in that moment. So the learning experience is fixed in our memories in a more solid state. That's why we usually don't forget our mistakes. Setbacks are just a reason to dig our heels in and move on with the job at hand.
So try not to even view everything as a failure or a success. I believe everything happens for a reason, and when you can learn from any setback, you are a winner! We choose to use the word 'failure'. So just choose not to use it!
All the very best.
Cheers! Jennifer
I believe that if you tried something, found it wasn't for you and decided to stop that doesn't mean you have failed it just means your one step closer to figuring out what it is you should be doing!
Thanks for sharing.
I clicked the "like" button reluctantly. I absolutely 'love' your blog!!! My motto and it is sooooo true. From start to finish, good content. Kudos, Bunny