DAY 75: Who Do You Blame? ( 77 Day Challenge )
"Life instantly improves when you don’t blame other people and focus on what you can control." - James Clear
I used to give control of my life to other people
- My job
- My health
- My financial situation
- My happiness
and I suffered as a result.
One thing I have learned this year is that any change you want in life has to begin with you.
You cannot expect the world to change to make you happy. Taking responsibility for how you want your life to turn out is how you take control.
It is easier to change yourself than to change the world.
The whole point of this post is, once you start taking responsibility for yourself and for your actions, life becomes a whole lot easier.
No one is coming to save you. Absolutely no one. You have to take control of your life, your happiness, your dreams, and your ambitions.
Any struggle you face right now is entirely your fault. Take it or take it.
When you take control of your life and realize everything is your fault and that the government, your family, your spouse is not to blame for anything you become very powerful.
Take control of your life, my friends. Life's easier that way
That said, always wake up and ask yourself this one question
"What is one small thing I could do today that would make a meaningful impact on my future?"
I hope this helps
Jude C. Ifeanyi
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Very true! To change anything ,you need to change yourself first. Then Everything will change.
Adjusting to changes begins with changing ourselves to stay with the changing times, while realizing that changes aren't permanent, but remembering always, that CHANGE, itself, IS! Thanks for this post, Jude!
Jeff
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Another great post Jude thank you :)
James Clear makes a lot of sense too.
All the best
Tracy
Thanks Tracy