Loving yourself ...

byBrandyFriend

789 followers

12 years ago

Loving yourself

You can never really understand why some people will like you and some people won't.Everyone has a different attraction to different people and while some personalities may click, some may clash.The important thing to remember is, no one will like you if you don’t first like yourself.People who are already looking for a reason to judge will be the first ones to see this in you.People who are insecure with themselves and their lives are ready to point out faults in anyone they can so that this may shift the attention away from them and on to you.It's always much easier to laugh at someone else then to be laughed at.If you aren't carrying yourself in a confidant manner and are walking around with your head held down then I guarantee that you will be some ones target before the day is over.

When we start to feel differently about ourselves and it shows in the way we present ourselves and our actions begin to change our minds and our minds begin to see things differently and then the world looks alive to us for the first time.We then begin to hold our heads high and people begin to notice the change, things start to really look up for you in a positive way.The people you attract will be of a completely different mindset and will be more involved in your new way of life than the ones who will eventually fall out of site.

So I would advise you to get a pen and paper out, make a list of things that you don’t like about yourself and begin with #1 until it is gone.Keep doing this until nothing bad is left for you to look at.I would suggest beginning your day with a motivational audio from someone like Zig Ziglar or something from a religious speaker such as John Hagee or Joyce Meyers.I have a huge list that I would be happy to share with anyone who needs it.Do this for 30 days as well as find a book that inspires you and read it for 15 minutes before you go to bed.You will truly see a difference in the way you feel about yourself and your outlook on life will change and as it does everyone around you will begin to like you everywhere you go.The negative people will no longer be attracted to you and you will look at life in a whole new way, when you first love yourself, the rest of the world will love you too.