It’s just not that simple

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Its one of those days ! Where you feel like throwing in the towel , feeling like this might not be for me . After reading a lesson and watching the video tutorial I log in to my back office on my laptop I have the video playing on my phone to follow along step by step . Pause , I go back rewatch , pause again . Ugh ! I don't get it , what am I missing ? I'm so frustrated. It's just not that simple ! Where did I go wrong ? I'm at the moment of giving up , maybe this isn't for me . Maybe I'm not cut out for this . If I can't get the menu and sidebar in the correct location maybe I'm a moron lol, I close my laptop . I walk away . Following simple detailed instructions , it looks so easy . Obviously not so easy for me . But im determined. Im not a quitter. I won't give up ! Take a break , and start the lesson over , find my mistakes correct and move forward. Anyone else go through this ? Any input or advice ? I'd love some criticism and/or words of encouragement. Tips ?

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Hi Beth...hang in there. It's a steep learning curve. I've been here several years but taken long breaks in between and still haven't finished all the basics. Some days feel like it'll never happen, but then I read others' comments about persistence gets the worm and I keep my dreams alive. Hopefully you will too!

Best,
Susan

We all had those moments when everything looked complicated, not knowing how to make "arrows out of the wood", like said before, take small steps , and if you are stuck, ask this community for help. There is also a fat chance that they have asked your question before. You can use the magnifying glass in top menu to find possible answers to your issue.
Last but not least, I wish you all the best in reaching your goals, Beth :-)

Try not to be so hard on yourself. Remember to breathe...grin.

It is a simple process...some of us get it and some of us feel we need to complicate it, as though that is the only way we will understand...

Follow the lessons, and you will see progress where there was none before.

Need a break? Go play solitaire, video games, watch a movie, take a nap, take a walk, go eat some ice cream...wait, you don't have ice cream?
Store trip!
See, get out of your way and do something different.
Then return and see what you can accomplish...

Works for me!

Rudy

Hey Beth,

Frustration is simply negative energy. I was right where you are once upon a time.

You're experiencing what I refer to as. learning pain. This is normal when you're trying to grasp something new.

After all you did say that you do not have much technical skills. And, that's ok too.

Guess what, we will all guide you along until you get that menu bar in the right location. Or, whatever you need.

Also, you are not a moron because you're smart enough to have the sense to join this brilliant platform.

My dear Beth, walking away from a task for a wee bit is " just taking a break".

Throwing in the towel is quitting.

Would you want to become a quitter today?

No. Why?

You're a winner because you came to community for help and you're getting help, right?


This is not a race. Follow the training with Kyle at you pace.

Zone out all the sounds around that buzz on the platform.

Focus on learning. There should be no pressure from others or anything. In other words avoid distractions!

Now tell me specifically how I can you. I don't mind walking you through this task.

Relax my friend.

Maxine

Thanks so much for offering to help I appreciate it . I’m struggling with the top menu navigation bar . Comparing to kyles demo his is up on the top left and mine is on the top right I can’t figure out how to move it . And the about me and my story with “ read more “ is also in the center of the cite , how do I remove that so someone would have to click the tab to read about me and also with the side bar deleting all the unnecessary items . Thx so very much

Hey Beth,

You need to understand that not all themes are the same. Therefore, your menu structure may be different to Kyle's in the training. No worries.

Let's Create A Menu In 7 Simple Steps:

1/ Go To Admin Area.

2/ Go To Appearance. Then, Click Menus.

3/ Click The Check Box With The About Beth. Then, Click Add Menu.

4/ If The Privacy Policy Is Not There, Add It As You Did In Step 3.

Now, you should have HOME, ABOUT BETH, AND PRIVACY POLICY. You can position them how you want by dragging and dropping.

5/ Click On Create Menu.

6/ Go To Manage Locations. Then, Choose Main Menu.

7/ Click Save Changes.

See if this helps.

Maxine :)

Hey Beth, we all get stuck and have problems from time to time, this is perfectly normal!

From checking your profile, I'm not sure that you have completed level 1 of the training provided here yet.

If this is the case, may I suggest continuing with your training step by step, at a pace that suits you and things should become much clearer to understand and implement.

Or if you are really stuck, reach out and ask the community. There will always be someone with the knowledge you seek willing to help.

Have a wonderful weekend!

Thank you so much for responding, I’m probably further along than it appears as I work a lot and work on this in the little time I have to myself . I have read further into the lessons as i have more time to do the reading part then go back and watch the video tutorials and follow along creating my site , however I don’t check off some of the tasks that I have completed even tho I completed it if im not quite sure I did it correctly and so I remember to go back and review the task or lesson

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