Marriage - A mutual bond of two good forgivers.
Marriage is a mutual and a very pure bond but nowadays it is more of an agreement where each one has to make certain sacrifices as well as compromises, each one is expected to understand all the inner feelings and emotions without being said anything, each one has to be a good listener , each one has to compete to prove their superiority over the other with no intend to harm both physically as well as emotionally.Marriages nowadays have been commercialized and compromised at every segment for every individual.Nowadays girls are empowered with visionary powers and heading up for equality in the society to that of men. Men are interested to be beside such a women's influence and beauty that would go hand in hand with them in every step of life.A girl wants a partner who is self made, possess selfless attitude, give respect to her as well as her family and last but not the least love her unconditionally.Similarly, a boy wants a girl who is self made, affectionate, treats his parents with equal respect and takes care of the entire family maintaining a perfect balance on the duo.
But the question is "is it easy to get such a qualified candidate ? Would their qualification stay intact for the rest of their lives?One of the person whom I knew is in dire need of such a girl who should be a classified symbol of beauty, highly qualified yet homely, should give priority to her family next to job.Now to get such a candidate for her brother she herself has to personalize the complete package of all the magnanimous things she desires.People marry their long relationship partners believing that since they know each other so well from a long time, life after marriage would be very comfortable and cozy.But why doesn't it run smoothly if the people have changed.It is a feeling of security as well their perspective that is demanded at a certain point.Marriage now becomes a complex affair because we make it so.. Well the above things of course does not apply to every couple out there.Now it all depends on how you handle your partner and the relationship.
It is rightly said that marriage is an amalgamation of two distinct families. You have to act as if to please each and every member of your family so as not to disappoint your parents who cared for you and sacrificed half of their lives which passed on seeing you climb up in life.Similarly, Not to dissatisfy your in laws since they are the ones who accepted you in spite of your flaws and mistakes and made you feel home away from home. Thus we fall in a trap rather melodramatic feel of swaying away with mixed emotions. I myself married a person whom I knew 7 years ago and finally got married with our parents agreement and blessings. I am still learning a lot of things about him, from him with him and believe me its really fun, because we have to choose each other to accept each other as we are and are always surprised by each other in some unique way.
Their is a famous proverb that marriages are made in heaven.Marriage should not be an excuse rather it should be the reason why two individuals are in each others life.Marriages should help each other to complete the unfinished half of your partner. Hence a good marriage is indeed a bond of two good forgivers.
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