Assessing the situation
Dont take this wrong.
Most of us need care at various times in our life, The most important fact is how long does this take. Week or Two. Longer
If it is longer How many of us know what we are intitled to for support we all have bills to pay and need to eat
Question time here
1 How many of you woke up this morning and asked your child to help you.
2 How many of you have a child help you around the home
3 How many of you have told a child they will pay them money and then forgot.
4 How many of you have a child who helps you look after siblings
5 How many of you remember to thank that child or do you take it for granted they will help
6 How many of you have taken away a childs priviledges because they failed to do said task . Denied them playing a game or going out.
7 How many of you have a child looking after you full time.
8 How many of you pay that child the going rate for being your carer or do you give them an allowance or pocket money,
9 How many of your children know where to go to get help.
10 How many of you rely on your children to get though the day.
If you found the questions understandable you will come to realise how easy it is to get our children involved in our daily lives . We Don't do it to hurt that child we do it to survive our days .Children are innocent and guilible they do it because thet love us and want to help us any way they can. I can honestly say as a parent I am guilty of some of these things
As a parent we have a duty of care to help. guide and steer our children to adulthood . We teach our children things they need to know to enter into the adult world . Happy functional and able to take care of themselves.
IT is truly sad when we have to be dependent on our children .When there is an alternative
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Great post, Heather thank you for sharing your insights, I am reminded of tat saying . it is not what you can do for your children but it is all about what you can teach them to do for themselves. this certainly adds to the ebb and flow of our natural lives.
glad you like it , this is my niche .I have been doing care for ages and I want to base my website on it . so happy you like what I wrote . g thankyou so much .