Death
Death everyone has to experience it but that will not make it any
easier. It won't be easy for the person passing away or the friends and family members left behind. Growing older you start to notice like the movie Life. People start disappearing from the family photos and neighborhood. You start to notice when someone dies all the people who passed away before you had forgotten about. Understanding death is so hard because you can't get an accurate experience of what actually happens. It's not like riding a bike, taking swim or childbirth. No one can tell you what you will experience, what will happen next or if you will feel pain. It's an unknown journey we all have to experience and hope that we go to a pleasant resting place. Family members have to learn to live on without your presence in hope you went to a pleasant resting place as well. You never can truly prepare yourself for a person's death no matter how long you thought you had to prepare yourself. It will always a painful experience and you will always second guess. What should I have done better for that person? No matter what you did or didn't do it stays in the back of your mind. Losing the 3rd family members in less than a year makes you wonder what's next really.
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Thanks for sharing with us.
It is something we all have to deal with.
My mother died 38 years ago when I was 16, it just happens at any time.
All the best to you.
Darren :)
Hi,
You have to live with the peace of mind that we all have to pass away but really we (our spirit) will not die. Be grate full for the wonderful time you spent with your love ones and friends that crossed over. And love everyone you meet. Every day is a new day. Be blessed my friend.
We lost my father in law on Christmas a few years ago, my dad 4 months later and my mother in law 8 months after that then one of my wifes brothers 10 months later. You adapt but it still hurts, especially with Nathan only living to 26 years old.
Unfortunately we all have to go through what you have recently experienced.
You are right about people disappearing from photos and family gatherings.
I lost the love of my life just over 2 years ago and never thought I would get over it.
Took me about 6 months.
I now have another delightful lady in my life.
Neither of us were looking for another romance / relationship. It just happened.
Brighter times are ahead for you.
Try to think of all the good times and happy memories.
John
I feel your pain. There is a brighter day ahead for you, as you look up again and thank God for your time on earth. The poet says we live "through clouds of glory" .meaning while we are learning about life and trials (here on earth,) there is glory ahead for all of us...no matter what problems we faced, and no matter what loving statements we forgot to say to others. Know it will all be OK. Be thankful for your tomorrows.
I've lost both my parents, which was quite different than losing anyone else. It is a part of life, and a sobering experience to lose someone, but we're still alive, so we must soldier on and make the most of all of our days, and always tell the people we love how much they mean to us while we can.
Its a pain that can't be explained when we loss loved ones I can't forget my younger sister i still cry I remember moment we had together before she leaves 2014