Confidence and Determination Is The Key To Success

byrdpshop

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7 years ago

In life, business and love requires a level of confidence and determination to get you through it. Sadly many people are lazy, so whatever the minimum amount of effort they have to put in to get by is exactly what they do. This is why so many fail at love, don’t succeed in business and their lives are never fully what they would like it to be. A lot of us dream big but to turn a dream into reality is a whole other level of energy most will not put into making it happen.

Confidence is a positive level of believing in yourself and knowing how to accept things as they come. You trust yourself, the decisions you make and you’re aware of your capabilities and your boundaries. Being confident also means you know what you want, you don’t waste time being indecisive, you take action.

Determination is how hard you are going to put effort into something, to take the attitude that you are not going to give up. No matter the fails that may come, you never let that slow you down or stop you. When determined, you learn from the fails and your mistakes and keep moving forward.

These two attributes are your biggest assets to success, not knowledge, skills, money, status or looks. Yes, having the lesser assets can make things easier but is not required. Too many people in life have made it to the top with nothing and it was all due to believing in themselves and never giving up.

So many try to succeed in business such as internet marketing and so many fail because they give up too soon because they didn’t see immediate results. Quite often people start off learning the trade wrong due to misinformation or the wrong idea how it all works to start with. These are setbacks, not the end and should be considered a lesson learned.

Any business, any relationship and life in general doesn’t come with a step by step instructions to success, just like for those that have children, you wished they came with guide book when they are born. But it doesn’t work that way, we have to figure it out like anything in life. So when you think about trying to succeed at something that is new to you or out of your comfort zone, think back on other things in your life that you did succeed at, even if you don’t consider it a success, think about how you got through it.

You may have raised your kids, regardless if they are all in college or not, you got them through to where they are now, that is a success. You did it without instructions or someone holding your hand. How did you learn to drive? Someone stuck you behind the wheel and said go, you had to figure it out. Well everything else in life is the same, you just have to accept that you are not going to know all there is about something in the beginning but in time you will.

We get in a rush when we want something, you want to date someone, you want a bigger house or you want your own business to have freedom. Failure starts as soon as you think and feel you want these things because you want it now. You tell yourself you know it is going to take time but the issue is that you don’t really accept the amount of time it is going to take to get what you want.

So along with confidence and determination, you develop and know patience. Don’t give up on a dream or idea because it might take time, anything worth having or doing is worth the time it may take to put into making it happen.