Reflection 2 After 10 Years At Wealthy Affiliate - When Urgency Shows Up

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When Urgency shows up

Hi Everyone

Do you remember when you started at WA and imagined results would be quick despite reading that this is not a get rich quick process or platform?

Urgency often looks like motivation but it frequently has the opposite effect.

Working on your business in the urgency mode is a burnout risk. Burnout typically leads to decline in motivation, disengagement, detachment and a loss of drive to achieve goals. It causes a "numb" attitude toward training and tasks and a "minimal effort" approach, significantly lowering productivity and overall performance.

This is why when it feels urgent to make money quickly, it’s worth pausing for a moment. Not to stop but just taking enough time to notice you are in the urgency mode.

Work seems to unfold more steadily when that’s noticed.

In my early days at Wealthy Affiliate, urgency never left me alone. I was constantly frantic in my training, driven by the need to make things happen fast, to see results right away. This frantic pace however, took its toll at some point. I suffered burnout.

Urgency pushes us to move quickly and we even skip parts of the training.

Our minds are craving certainty, we're worried about paying bills or meeting that tight deadline, needing to make money urgently. It feels pressing.

These experiences taught me how to use urgency as a tool rather than letting it control me.

I got to know the difference between using urgency to enhance growth and urgent frenzies that hinder performance. When we feel that rush of urgency, it’s not necessarily that something has to be done there and then without thinking things through.

Reflecting on ten years with Wealthy Affiliate, the growth has been immense. Not just in building a business but in shaping how I see challenges. It's essential to see building a business as a long term project right from the beginning. This creates steadfastness.

I learned to embrace urgency, not as an enemy, but as a switch or guide that pushes me to sit up, to get going but then pausing to reassess and realign my goals, be it for the day or for the whole journey. It's a subtle shift, but once you recognize it, the impact is transformative. Every time you feel the heat of urgency, remember, it’s just the first stepping stone or rather your push button to begin your tasks.

Patience and Long-Term Vision

Balancing immediate urgency with a long-term vision is key. I've learned that while urgency can offer that initial spark, patience is what keeps the fire burning. It's about staying grounded in the realisation that this is a marathon and not a sprint.

I had to master the balance by slowing down just enough to think clearly. This isn’t about stopping in your tracks but about taking moments to refine and adjust. It's a strategy that has helped me to stay the course and not throw in the towel.

Whenever I want something I can't afford right away, it's a reminder to get back to work, not for quick results but to keep going and create more.

Deliberately planning your moves rather than rushing, leads to remarkable resilience. It seems contrary to embrace patience when urgency knocks, but time and time again, it proves to work wonders.

Choosing patience doesn’t mean being passive. Instead, it's an active decision to engage in your journey with resilience and intention.

We can use the push that urgency brings to fuel initial motivation, but not letting it steer our whole journey.

Turn urgency into an asset by keeping it in check while fostering sustainable growth. This has deepened my understanding of how to better navigate my own path.

The Wealthy Affiliate journey is a chance to develop future-proof businesses while growing personally.