A Husband's Journey - Get Out Of Your Own Way!
Life hasn't been easy with the constant fear of not being good enough for the very people we care for. Day in and day out seeing evidence that shows that's how they may see you too, feeling like everything you've been trying so hard to do, just hasn't been good enough.
Those dreaded uncomfortable feelings that take over your mind, your body, your life's energy. I'm sure a lot of people would understand these feelings that no matter what you do, you just can't seem to shake off or avoid seeing.
These painful and uncomfortable feelings have a sneaky way of tricking your mind to be consumed by it. It tricks you to focus all your energy in trying to fight it, fix it, fix yourself. But that's the problem isn't it? It tricks you to only focus on yourself...these thoughts and feelings all come from within ourselves, no matter what situation or person that we may think causes these feelings.
What has worked so far, for me, is to Defocus on my own painful feelings and Refocus on doing it for my circle of people, for the experience, for the journey, instead of my own self obsessed worried feelings, that kept me in a loop of my own stuck perception of reality.
Somehow for that very moment, it dispels these uncomfortable feelings and gives you more energy than ever to take action! Have you ever felt this way? I'm sure of it and it feels awesome doesn't it? You owe it to yourself, think for and do it for your loved ones, your people, the experience and that's the energy that's going to give you a clearer mind to project forwards! Peace
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Great sharing of life experiences and I agree every bit you say in the blog.
Thanks TW2016! Yes, we all experiece these things and it's a good reminder.