Staying the course
What are the attributes that separates the successes from the rest. We all know that discipine is important and motivation is important but why is it that these attributes are not universal. We can write down our goals, however i believe that what is more important is how we respond to those moments when challenges come, and they will. Do you belong in the group of people who are willing to take the learning from your challenges, regroup and keep marching on? or do you beat yourself up and find that it takes some time for you to return to your project. How one respond to these moments of temporary setbacks is a determinant of whether one succeeds or not, and it all depends on the quality of our self talk
Positive self talk builds resillience helping us bounce back from challenges, but how do we build resillience and stay the course, so that our march to success is constant and uninhibited.
Discipline is extremely important there is no doubt about that, but some of us have learnt a type of discipline that is counterproductive. We beat ourselves up for doing one thing wrong we end up knocking ourselves out the game. Rather than producing the success we seek, being so hard on ourselves can actually dissuade us from success. It is a scientific fact that all negative self talk is learnt behaviour. once upon a time we were stunned by a well intentioned rebuke, it shocked us into taking action and we accepted it as the way to get things done but we have forgotten that it left us with us with a painful emotion that we relive each time we direct the same harshness at ourselves, and of course we recoil in the way our childhood self recoiled all those years ago, so rather than taking action we avoid what must be done. Does that mean we must not be honest with ourselves and evaluate our situation rationally owning up to our shortcomings when necessary, of course not. Only by doing so can we ensure the progressive march to success that we seek. if a person is not dedicating the required time to his business activities or not carrying our his scheduled business duties he must have the mettle to admit that and make changes where required. i guess what matters is a balanced approach. The strength of character to admit when we need to up our game and the recognition that as children of a loving God, we must also give our selves credit when we do something right because as spiritual beings love is our actual food. I am a Hypnotherapist of 20 years plus experience, and i have an idea to create a downloadable product that will help the community. Wouldn’t it be great to play a part in someone creating their first million. if you had your very own hypnotherapist who said to you. i am going to help you take control of your mind so that you can proudce any result that you wish what would you want it to contain, would that be more discipline, more self esteem, better budgeting, or would it mean changing the relationship you have with money to a more positive one. Let me know, i look forward to toasting your first million.
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good one pr