Three Types of Pain, Three Ways to Be Driven.
Hello, everyone,
Today I will be talking about pain. I wanted to talk to you about that to make you driven.
Being driven is more powerful than being motivated, motivation comes and goes but being driven is here for life. That's why very important to be driven rather than being motivated.
The things that can "motivate" you are your future goals, excitement, your family, and friends, or even your day job. In general, motivation can be temporary. Because it tends to fade away when things are better off for you and your family.
But "Driven" is created through past events, your background story, and your past struggles.
Some speakers talk about being driven and how it can literally change your way of acting, your way of dealing with business and it is more powerful than anything else.
The stronger your pain the more driven you are:
There are three types of pain: Moral, physical, and spiritual.
Spiritual Pain: The one that is the most painful is the spiritual one, this kind of pain is pushing people to suicide...In the worst cases, it ends by that.
So I am not going to talk about that one because it is a whole different level of pain. Someone who experienced that is likely to end up as a drogue addict, alcoholic and maybe more than that. It is the hardest pain to overcome, and it literally destroys lives. But those who succeed to overcome it, can be very successful as well.
It is generally related to false religious beliefs, or harassment and other deep psychiatric states.
I am not going to talk in details about that kind of pain for two reasons, there is generally "religion" involved in the indoctrination process and as it is often rare to see people experience that type of pain, I am not going to give details here.
This one is related to emotions, you can experience it even if you are not that spiritual. It destroys your self-esteem, can make you lose your identity and you end up not knowing what is your purpose in life. You are too lost, sad, very irritated, indoctrinated and scripted for a life time.
Related niches: Spiritual niches and wellness, the pursuit of happiness and other deeper niches. There can be more obscure niches such as "Satanism"...
Physical pain:
This one is the most common, it is not always easy to overcome it, but in general physical pains are temporary, pain is felt at a certain moment but then disappears. Your body engages a healing process and one day with some efforts, you'll see it disappear.
There are permanent physical pains that can last for decades, back pain can last forever. But in general, they disappear with some medical treatments.
The physical pain can make you driven in your business when you overcome it. You can become a person that can inspire and help other people to overcome that same pain you once experienced. It could be back pain, earache, or stronger pain such as cancer.
For example, we often see women fight against breast cancer, they feel the pain for some years, they struggle every day to fight against it, and once they overcome it, they become role models and want to be involved in the related community.
They raise funds, they help women who suffer just like they did and they can be very successful and inspiring.
We admire those women because they are driven and are influencing and strong figures.
Related Niches: Earach remedies, Back Pain Solutions, articulation pain for old people...etc.
Some of these niches are born because of the physical pain that once was felt by the creator.
Moral Pain:
Moral pain is very powerful, it is generally related to your story, your failures, your frustrations as a businessman, as a blogger of anything related to moral irritation.
It can be way stronger than physical pains because even if you heal, the scars can remain for life. It can be related to losses, breaking up with your boyfriend or even a divorce, it can be because you are overwhelmed by all the event that happens in your life as well.
Some of the moral pains need psychological therapies, we go and talk to an influencer, a psychologist, we try to overcome our moral pain and when we succeed, it becomes part of our life and that is the thing that can make us driven in business.
Let's take an example: there is this guy who once gets rejected because he is obese, he struggles every single day. He often gets bullied in school, he feels worthless, he feels ashamed and he suffers strongly. Then you see him years later, in great shape, he's motivating overweight persons and make them lose weight.
He is driven because he knows how it feels to be obese, he knows what those folks feel and he becomes the man to follow and to listen to.
I am involved in this kind of niches. As I experienced moral pain, just like any other blogger, I am aware that I can help. The thing that keeps me driven is my past because I don't want to feel that pain again.
Related core niches: How to recover from a breakup, how to stop procrastinating and be more productive, Make money online, be more confident and overcome shyness... etc.
To recap, the pain you once felt or the one you still feeling now can be the train that can make everything happen.
Pain is not always easy to overcome but it can be the reason you are here or the reason you want to succeed in life. Just take it easy and try to overcome that pain. In the process of healing, you will learn more than anyone else. That's why some of us prefer to listen to people who experienced pain instead of listening to a docor.
Don't forget you past, but always seek for imrovement.
One last phrase. Don't forget to be awesome because you already are :)
Juba.
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Wonderful Post.
Thank you, Cinderella :)
The word "Wonderful" is exceptional for me!
Thank you for reading, that's why I write every day. For the comments and the encouragement, I can get from people just like yourself.
Thank you again :)