What Pet Parenting Really Looks Like (Hint: It’s Not the Selfies)

byJeffrey_C

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4 months ago

No words. No commands. Just love.

Yesterday was a long one — especially for Mia.
Getting to the clinic by 8:30 AM for her CT scan?
No problem.
Waiting five hours while she was under?
Still manageable.

But knowing she had to lie perfectly still through it all — sedated, silent, unseen —
That’s the part that guts you.

Because if she moves, they might miss what’s inside.
And if they miss what’s inside…
Well, we’ve walked that road before. We’re not doing it blind this time.

This isn’t just another scan. It’s the part where hope holds its breath.

The call came in close to 1:30.
The voice on the other end said, “She’s just coming out of the sedation, so you can start heading in.”

But before she could finish, she paused.
“Correct that. Mia just sat up. She’s getting ready to stand. So yes… she wants to go home.”

By the time I walked into the clinic — and it took all of twelve seconds — my little drugged-up ball of fluff was already being led toward me.

One staff member held the leash.
The other walked beside her, gently steadying her so she wouldn’t fall.
She was swaying, side to side — still under, still unsteady, but moving forward like the stubborn, proud German Shepherd she is.

Because pride doesn’t wait. Even when your legs don’t work right.

After we finished the paperwork, they walked her out to the car, picked her up so gently, and wished us all the best.

I must say… the ride home was quiet. Too quiet.
Not the peaceful kind — the heartbreaking kind.
The kind where you sit in silence and watch the drugs work their way out of her body, knowing there’s nothing you can do but wait it out.

The big, bad German Shepherd — reduced to a helpless creature for the next 8 hours or so.

Fifty-three minutes later, we were finally home.
It was a return to her safe spot — the place where her body can rest, and her eyes can whisper, “I’m still here.”

That’s the part people don’t see.
The after.

We don’t have results yet. That’ll take up to two days. But she’s home.
And we’re holding space for her — minute by minute, breath by breath.

It was especially hard on Cheryl yesterday.
She was not with us — she was at work, trying to focus, trying not to break apart.
Being a pet parent means carrying the weight, whether you’re in the car or not.
And just like with human parenting, it drains you when you can’t be there in the moment your heart needs you to be.

And this isn’t new for us.
We’ve walked this road for more than 15 years.

Mia is the fourth of our pets to battle cancer — Genessa (our first rescue), Tia, Bishop... and now her.
It doesn’t feel fair. But then again, who ever said life was?

We just keep showing up anyway.
Because that’s what love demands.

This is what being a pet parent is:
It’s carrying their pain when they can’t explain it.
It’s being fluent in silence.
It’s showing up, even when they can’t tell you what hurts.

We can’t stop what’s coming. But we can make damn sure she never faces it alone.

This is why Fluffy Shepherds exists.
Because this love deserves more than silence.

— Jeffrey
Founder, Fluffy Shepherds
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