Navigating Relationships with Genuine and Sincere People.

byJEaston

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9 months ago

Hello to everyone! To my friends and family here at Wealthy Affiliate, good morning, good afternoon, and good evening, wherever you are on this beautiful Planet.

Today's blog is about one friend. It seems we are OK, but suddenly, we are not. I also had this kind of friend in Manila before. What I did was always avoid her and reject any invitation to avoid any annoyance. Sometimes, it's too difficult because she's always in your circle of friends. I'm not sure which one is jealous or insecure, or she is just unique. That means they're everywhere in this beautiful world. I'm sure some of you may have met this kind of person. How would you handle that situation if you ever encountered it?

It is challenging to understand why someone would act differently towards you behind your back, especially if they seem friendly and supportive in front of you. People who engage in this behavior are often called "fake" or "two-faced." It's important to remember that everyone has motivations and experiences shaping their behavior. Sometimes, people may act a certain way towards you to gain something from you or avoid conflict while secretly harboring negative feelings. Trusting your instincts and paying attention to any red flags that may indicate someone is not genuine with you is essential. It's also important to surround yourself with people who uplift and support you positively.

Also, it can be difficult to avoid encountering "two-faced" people altogether, but there are some steps you can take to minimize the impact of this behavior on your life.

Firstly, trust your instincts and pay attention to any red flags that may indicate someone is not genuine with you. If someone seems overly friendly or eager to please, without any natural substance to back it up, this may be a sign that they are trying to manipulate you somehow.

Secondly, try to build relationships with open, honest, and authentic people. Seek out individuals who share your values and are unafraid to express their feelings and opinions.

Thirdly, be aware of your behavior and ensure you are not inadvertently contributing to a culture of fakeness or insincerity. Be genuine and authentic in your interactions, and avoid gossiping or spreading rumors about others.

Finally, remember that you are not responsible for other people's behavior or attitudes. If someone consistently acts two-faced or manipulatively toward you, setting boundaries and protecting yourself from their negative influence is essential. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and honesty, and it's up to you to create a life that reflects those values.

The sentence "You deserve to be treated with respect and honesty, and it's up to you to create a life that reflects those values" emphasizes building relationships based on mutual trust and respect and taking responsibility for our actions toward others. It encourages us to strive for authenticity and honesty in all our interactions and to avoid manipulative or two-faced behavior. By creating a life that reflects these values, we can build a strong foundation for our mental and emotional well-being and foster meaningful connections with those around us.

Thank you so much for your precious time reading this blog.

Happy Tuesday, everyone!

I love you all,

Joyce