A Small Business Keeps Upsetting Me.

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In April, I purchased Ceramic Bisque Tomahawk to paint as painting helps me relax. Well after a month of no updated order information, I started looking for phone number to call this business. I found the phone number through PayPal, when I called the voicemail greeted me with saying" I don't feel like answering the dang phone and don't call back). I immediately grew concern, but still left kind message inquiring about my order.

This lady who owns this business ignored the communication sent to her through contact forum, and only reached out through text after filing a complaint through PayPal. The text messages she was sending were disturbing, mean, and bragging about how PayPal will rule in her favor no matter what. Two days later, she responded to PayPal complaint with a tracking number.

This seller continues to send text messages, saying I'm fake and my family with very mean belittling messages that made me cry. However, I let her keep on without me responding to her text until yesterday. While sitting in doctor's office a text message came in again from this seller, told you and your fake family with curse words that PayPal will rule in her favor.

I couldn't see why the text came in yesterday until got home and the package was at my door. PayPal wasted no time ruling in this sellers' favor, didn't even give me a chance to expect the package and make sure not broken (which thankfully wasn't).

This is a experience I never would like to go through again. So here are some tips for everyone from my experience.

Avoid PayPal

PayPal doesn't care about their customers anymore they are only out for the sellers and them collecting their fees. I shouldn't have been put through the rigger like this no matter what.

Another reason I say avoid PayPal; you have no chance of fighting with any type of sellers with PayPal sellers. Even digital services, sellers can collect your money and when you file a complaint about the seller being a fraud with evidence they still rule in the favor of the seller.

As A Seller, Small or large be Nice to your customers

If your a seller of any type of business rather physical products or digital be nice to your customers as can lead to bigger sales. My sale with the company was below $100, like always do my first order is always small to test out the business and see how fast they communicate address customer concerns.

This website lost me as a customer, as my family had planned on ordering lots more as so many options for ceramics was available on her website. I cannot post the text messaging this seller sent as too much bad words and hurtful remarks about my family that are disturbing.

Leave Reviews about Your Experience

No matter your experience with a business, leave reviews.

The first picture is followed up link sent to me this morning to leave a review which was 1 star and she doesn't even deserve one star. I left a review on three review websites and BBB about the treatment customer service I received about enquiring about my order.

Responding to Customer Inquiring in Polite Manner

Here is a rule of thumb I like to follow. Treat everyone how you would like to be treated. When you purchase something online, you would like to be responded to in a kind professional manner, I apply the same attitude to your own customers when they reach out about their concerns.

As this experience I went through, hope I never have to experience again. Now, I am being told her contact the police as the text message this morning threaten to do harm to my family and bragging about how she knows where i live as she has my address where item was delivered. It is kind of like am dealing with a child or a terrorist.

Overall, its hurtful and disturbing.

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Wow, that’s incredible, Jannette!

We put most of our charges on our American Express card, which still offers excellent customer service.

You need to take your phone to your local Sherriff's Dept. and make a report immediately!
Don't respond to the woman and make sure you save her message threatening you!
Don't take S**T from anybody!

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Ouch. Sorry for this, Janette. But you handled it with Grace as a Lady should.

Blessed Be

JD

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Yes, I sure did! I was not going to reply to any of her texts. Now the Police is involved!

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Good. Hopefully she will learn the proper lesson.

JD

Wow, Jannette! Very sorry about your poor experience, my friend! That sounds horrible.

I've used Paypal, for over 20 years with no issues, but you are one of many who seem to have had problems with them, and I am so sorry about that.

Jeff

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PayPal used to be excellent service when they were on their own, but just as eBay bought them out the service changed. I still like to use PayPal for my purchases on eBay or Etsy, as no problems. My problems come when i google what am looking to buy and purchase directly through the websites.

If you Google that website in screenshots, the website is poorly put together. I taught when you deal with any online business, there has to be clear contact information especially with Google and PayPal.

To get this lady's contact information it was like an Easter Egg hunt, had to search and search.

I don't like to bring down small businesses but the responses she sent uncalled for and disturbing.

I went to the Police file a report, they took copies of phone text messages as to get through Verizon said could take months. Even the detective says the responses are threats that they will take seriously. While was there another one came in listing weapons, she has that can do me harm and wipe out everyone I love.

All of these is over a $41,56 Order, that I just wanted an update. It kind of makes me for guilty for asking about my order.

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Thanks for the clarification, Jannette! I use Paypal credit for all exterior purchases, and no problems there either.

Jeff

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Report her to the police then send the report to Paypal that may get something done. Especially if the police decide to investigate it and then send this report also to the FBI, after that send the FBI report back to Paypal. Lets see them stand next to her then.

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I did go to the Police, filed a complaint. The detective says the text are concerning and while the detective was reading all the text the lady sent another.

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Good! And let the police keep that particular phone and log all of that information and threats she is sending you.

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