Make8 it small goals step by step
Generally i dont believe in new years resolutions, unless you consider the idea that each minute of each day is the beginning of a new year.
i dont know about you but due to some swnsory and mental processing quirks, i am someome who easily gets overwhelmed just even by writting an email or responding to a text or any of the most simplest of tasks.
I can put in ten to 20 minutes of up to an hour or two of super focused energy at a time but then i feel like i need to rest for 10 to 20 minutes or at least then go do something different then. (Like after i write this i am going to have to roll over (as i am wrting this laying down) ((or if i was sitting up id have to go find a bit of floor to go stretch my bavk) and turn of my mind to let it float for a moment and cool down and reconnect doing a check in and listening to all.. body, awareness of room, mind quiet until next thought entered). This is not a bad thing bc it does force me to have the opportunity to check in more then most people do, it just means i get things done wicked slow.
But, even with that rest, by the time i get home or it is evening and sun sets, my mind is fried by life and i pretty musch useless for an hour or two.
so getting things done is hard for me.
And its easy to wallow in shame or regret or loss of hope and confidence that i will ever get anywhere close to my dreams.. but after a pause or a break doing other stuff and after i relax listening to my body for a mkment, then i remeber the nagging dream, the nagging wish, the desire i have, and i remember how if one just keeps trying how slowly step by step they can eventually get somwhere.
Inch by inch.
Point is, even if it is just ten minutes a day, or even if it is just ten minutes a monh..if you keep coming bavk to it, EVENTUALLLY maybe in a hunded years or ao if you really oy do ten minutes worth a season or so.. but eventually you CAN get to at least closer to where you wish you could be
Before you watch a show or however your relax or entertain your mind or even AFTER , give yourswlf permission to spend at least just ten minutes in the direction of whatever that little goal is.
My goal right now.. other to save my familys property and to one day have enough money to believe both the property and my familys wellbeing is safe and swcure is a desire to share that journey with people who will both accept and celebrate our exploration of ideas and life with us through the links we provide.
Its a need for acceoptance and celebration of what we wxperience and ideas we wish to share as we learn about them.
I hope people will at least bc connected to us via our facebook pages if nothing else.
List can be foujd on our main krineteagle page.
two on edible gardening, one on bodylistening
one on design and two on cool ideas just to think about
ideas2thinkabout & ideas2explore
its in those little ways i want to be conected as we learn and become brave enough to do even more.
And then after you spend ten minutes signing up to follow along to stay connecting to us another human being afterwards, stretch your body and spend ten minutes towards you own goals as well. :)
and please forgive all the excruciating typing errors as i write fast and fail to proofread and then just leave it as it is.. to move on to the next thing
and pleasr i do hope you will allow us to be connevted by more then just this post but also by some of those spaces i like to share thought ideas i have come across ...
thank you for allowing me to be apart of your world...
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Hey don't worry about it, many people have no clue where to start. I'm a soon to be college student. I have many obligations right now, I even need to figure out a career that I will do for the rest of my life. But you can't overwhelm yourself, make it a side project, then one day you will build your website in a huge way. Give it time, take it slow, and learn. You won't regret it!
One hint about life.. do not limit yourself to just one career in life. As you evolve and change, your interests will evolve and change. i hope you will Follow whatever sparks your heart right now even if it happens to be a terrbible "career" choice in someone else's eyes. i hope you will Follow your passions, your interests. Life is too short to ignore all the interests you might have in order to go any "safe" routes of any specific careers. As you passions change, your "career" will take its own shale and form - on its own. i do so hope you will Stay open and inviting to wherever your interests in life take you. ;) and let the career just fall into place as it will naturally. ;)..
as for the being overwhelmed part..i actually kind of like it what it does for me.. see, for me, its part of a supposer natural mental sensory processing 'disorder' quirk i have. well its called a 'disorder' and yes, it does mean i process the world differently and can only do it in small spurts before my senses have to shut down and reset themselves.. but, in a way, its also quite a beautiful thing-- bc i am forced to stop and listen in to myself and my surrounding for a moment whether i want to or not. Kind of like being forced to stop and smell the roses whether i want to or not.. but at same time, once i gave myself permission to celebrate these forced stops and check ins , even though i get things done accomplished more super slowly slower then a snail or sloth, i am also grateful for the opportunities it gives me more then most --- to be able to have that wxcuse to stop and just savor the breath when it happens. ;) its something i actually wish for all people, only for others, i would hope the stopping to savor the moment is always an option and not necessarily something forced upon then that they must learn to embrace :) but an option more people will try to take before the world passes them by and so they can share in the momemt with me as well. ;)