It has not gotten better

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But, I have.

My husband, Butch, transitioned three years ago today, April 20, 2020. His departure was a life-changing event. They said it would get better. It has not. I have...even though I miss him every day.

We had been married for fifty-one years. We have two daughters, three granddaughters, one son-in-law, and one bonus son.

So, today, I played some of our music and cherished the memories. Please indulge me to share my family with you. Here we are!

He was known for being a sharp dresser.

Rest easy, Babe. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you!

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I know it's hard but honestly, you are at a turning point in the process - 3 years is a special time. You will always miss him but your loving family still needs you to share your stories together. You, better than anyone, know his jokes, his quirks, his passions, and now you get that opportunity to pass them on to the newest generation. That keeps him alive in their hearts as well. Though life is different now, you still have a lot to do on behalf of both of you. God Bless.

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This is very warm. Also, very nice of you to write your sentiments about my post. Blessings and thanks to you, Jeannine.

Hazel

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Hi Hazel. Sorry to learn of your loss. I can tell a lot about someone from a picture of them (a sort of 6th sense I guess). I can tell you now (and I bet I'm right) your husband was a kind man full of love and compassion for others.

Paul

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Yup! He definitely was, Paul. He was loved by so many people because of this. Thank you for responding to my post.

Hazel

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My condolences. I have watched my mom struggle since my dad passed some years ago. She has many who love her and is very active, but occasionally in private to me she has had moments of grief that were heart wrenching to see.

I look at the pictures above, especially the one with your family and see his (and your own) special care take sprout and grow into a beautiful thing. Each one of those carrying on with energy that started from the two of you.

How blessed you two were to have fifty one years.

Thank you for sharing. The grace you conduct yourself here now being demonstrated in this personal tragedy and triumph you share with us.

Your honoring this man even now humbling to me to be invited to see.

Thank you.

Jason

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Jason, your words have me crying now. They are so warm and sensitive. Thank you so much for sharing them with me. I am praying for your mother. I understand her feelings. I am glad that she has you so that she does not hold her grief alone. Thank you once again.

Hazel

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I'm so sorry for your loss, Hazel. You have such a wonderful family that are supportive of eachother. Thank you for sharing your precious memories here with us. My prayers are sent to you.

Take care always.

Love,
Myra 💜💓💕💝🌻🌹🌷🌼

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It is so very nice of you, Myra to say this about my family. I am thankful. Thank you for your prayers. I receive them.

Hazel

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thank you for sharing so openly and deeply with us Hazel. I'm sorry to hear of your loss. you have a wonderful family. what a blessing, and precious memories that can will always be with you. hugs and prayers sent to you 🙏🌹🌷💕✨🚴‍♂️

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Thank you for saying these very kind words, Dale. I am thankful to have a forum where I can express my feelings this way. I receive your hugs and prayers.

Hazel

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I understand the feeling. Getting over the loss of loved ones takes time.
Spending some time with your family helps to heal the wound.
Stay strong, Hazel.

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I appreciate your comment, Muslimah. I am thankful to have a strong support system of family and friends.

Hazel

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