This Is My Reality, You Are Invited to Share.
This is my reality, you my friends & family are extras on my stage.
How I orchestrate my play is all my choosing. Other beings can interact with me in my play but it's up to me whether I agree to coexist with them or not.
All My Choice
I have to admit that if I want to re choose, it can be heavy work to disentangle what I've built.
We have been conditioned from an early age what is acceptable & what isn't. To change these beliefs can be downright difficult.
Focus
It has been said by many philosophic types of people that it is all a thought, & if we focus enough on the thought raised, then so it shall be.
Fear
On the other hand fear works exactly the same way, what we don't want turns up just as well.
Having this knowledge we realize it's just a matter of refocusing on a better outcome.
This takes a lot of practise to conquer this wrong belief, but it can be done.
It takes a lot of courage sometimes to change ones life, it can be the fear of hurting people that are attached to us or our belief.
Does it Work For Me?
Rechoose if it doesn't. Actually this is your life and you are entitled to live it as you like, but trying to do this without hurting or damaging others along the way can be tricky.
My daughter was dumped by her husband just after having her second child. She was shocked, she didn't realize her marriage was failing.
I sat on the side lines watching how she would change the script of her play, supporting her with the children & money when I had it.
Result
She's become very self reliant and very wise, listening to her own council. Life teaches us doesn't it?
She is now able to re choose the partner to share her life with, and she seems very happy these days.
Courage
To change what doesn't work for us anymore.
I wish all my readers all the courage, focus, & happiness that they deserve, including myself.
Cheers
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Hi Jae, I read your post with an increasing smile. I have found myself unexpectedly in the position of what I had termed in my head as 'having to reinvent' myself again! This initially felt a completely negative uphill struggle.
But sitting writing content for my website, I sudden realised what a huge opporutinty I have been blessed with! So, I decided to go premium yearly on the Black Friday offer and commit myself to a year of getting my business up and running, rather than sitting here worrying about what was to become of me!
So many thanks for your inspiring, perceptive post and I wish you much fun and success in your WA advnture, Sue :)
Well said Jae, I really like the concept of rechoosing, I guess that is why many folks come to the online marketing world, it is a desire to change aspects of their lives and in the process of doing so, they are enhancing their lifestyles and what a place we have to create and craft.
Thanks for sharing your insights,
Thanks Alex, I was squeezing my cheeks, wondering what the your comments would be. Some people could be outraged.
Cheers, Jae
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Very well said Jae!
I agree that focusing on where we want to be eventually gets you there...but, there are sometimes when things aren't exactly as we'd hoped once we get there. Then we have to rethink on what would make us happy and would work for us better...
It certainly does take a lot of courage to change things, and to face our fears, but once we do, it leads to better and happier things in life...
Thanks for sharing...it's a great reminder for us all to stay focused on what we want, not what we fear!
Best wishes :) ~Sherry
Thanks Sherry, ♥