Some People Are More Demanding than Others
When someone is self centered, they have no respect for someone else or their time. All they know is how to take advantage of someone else. They're also chasing away that person by their behavior and then wonder why everyone disappears when they need them the most.
You can be your worst enemy so you need to learn to monitor your own behavior. there are people who will help someone in need but they're not going to let themselves be taken advantage of.
Remember also that your children mimic your behavior so don't expect them to treat you any different than you treat them. When you're abusing someone, nonverbally you're telling them they can treat you the same way. Yet then some parents are surprised when their does the same back to them. Your children mirror your behavior, so why are you surprised when they do to you what you did to them.
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So, right, Davida!
The ability to say, "No!" , is a gift.
I often, ask...can they do this, without, my help?
I can't be your battery, and motivation, if, I'm actually, keeping anyone, from "Their" , responsibility...I think, they call, that enabling.
They don't understand...people will, avoid them.
Good, one!
Barb