Don't Give Up Like I Did!

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Hello everyone

Today I want to send a small message to all of you. Some people may see it a great message and learn from it, and others may see it, not that important. Either way, because I love this community, I want to share a tiny piece of my recent life.

I wanted to write more details, but I tried to make it short, so no one feels bored reading this!

Flashbacks From Worst Two Years In My Life

As some people may know. I am a doctor who comes from a small country called Jordan. In Jordan, jobs are rare, and basically, you work for free. I don't mind helping others for free. In fact, I already did that for two years of my life, and I tried my best to give them all my energy to keep them healthy and happy.

However, sometimes you fail. Not because I am a terrible doctor, not because I lack knowledge, also, not because I don't care or I didn't give all I have. But, it is because this is fate; they just died.

I had moments in my life where I wanted to give up. I just wanted to stop trying. Imagine whatever you do; you just can't help anyone.

Then, I decided to stay strong and keep going. So many people supported me, and that alone is a big reason to keep going and feel like I am blessed with great people around me.

I decided, after two years, to continue my residency in the USA or Germany. Life took me to Germany, where I live now. During the process of getting a Visa, I had to suffer from a lot of problems, and I had to take a big loan to achieve this goal. Here, I am in Germany! I was happy for the first time for years.

BUT, I got the big shocking news. Paperwork takes too long in Germany. It has been now around 14 months since I arrived here, and till now, they still processing my file, and I am not working. Also, they refused to give a job permit to even work in a restaurant or a small market.

During the year 2019, I decided to work online to support myself, I worked non-stop, and I still do. I literally changed myself and soul into a machine because I have big goals, I want to make my family proud and happy, and I want to help other people in the process.

But, In November, I lost my closest friend to my heart. I lost the one person I wanted to make him feel proud (My Father) He died all of a sudden due to medical error. I felt so sad, annoyed, angry, and, most of all, I felt like giving up again after all this time because I've been away from him for almost eight years of my life because I studied in Egypt for seven years, and I am in Germany for one year.

Why did I say that?

Simply because I believe life is unfair "sometimes." I suffered and still suffering from so many problems and obstacles in my life. I wanted to state this because I believe you can overcome your problems as I did. I accepted so many problems in my life and started to solve them step by step.

Building your online business the same as mine will make you and me cry, sad, angry, and maybe worst feelings like depression. But think again! Is this the worst problem we have? I mean so many people are suffering from the worst problems in their life such as cancers, wars, being without parents, diseases I wish I never knew, and much more!

Last Word For You

I want you to stay strong; I want you to stop the negative thought as I did before. Create your positive thinking and goals, and you will manage. Believe me; you will!

Lastly, write down a piece of advice for anyone who has been through a lot of problems in their life. I want this advice from you too! Because that will keep me going.

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This is a great post... but first I want to offer my condolences on your loss. You are in my prayers.

Now, you ask for advice... I believe it is you who should be giving it. You are a true example of how to overcome obstacles. I commend you and hope for the best.

I am also praying for a speedy process of getting the paperwork done soon.

Bob

Hey Bob,

Thank you for your kind words. I always tell everyone who suffers from different problems to stay strong because there is a day after a long night. I wish you and everyone else out there a healthy and happy life.

Staying strong is always the best option!!

Dr. Mohd. Thanks for sharing your story. All of us cannot choose where we come from... some call it fate.

We can choose where we are heading towards. You have made those choices. For some, like you have to stay away while your loved one suffer. It is tough and sometimes you get that guilt feeling.

I was away when My father got cancer and had to come home to support him because my brother migrated to another country. I have up a promising career to do that. My wife always wondered what would like be like if I had stayed in that country. We cannot change the past.

I can empathize with your experience. Look forward but use the past as motivation.

Cheers,
🙃Stanley

Hey Stanley,

Thank you for your kind words. It is true, I felt guilty because of all that and I actually lost a lot because I am always away. But, that made me stronger and more motivated to keep going forward and achieve my goals and even more.

I wish you the best. Your choice is an amazing one. Never regret your choices and embrace them.

Thanks, best wishes to you as well, my friend.

Thanks so much for sharing your story. This must have been very difficult to write. I am so sorry for the loss of your father and know that I send you and your family my thoughts and prayers.
You seem to have come through these trials and tribulations with an positive outlook on life. That's the thing to do!
As you have stated, "Don't give up!" I believe you will keep going and have much success here at WA!
So nice to have met you Mohammad.
Rebecca

Hey Rebecca,

Thank you for your kind words. Life can be difficult, but when I think about it my problems not the worst. I know that well because I see unfortunate people with the worst diseases out there or accidents. Giving up is a state I felt and reached several times, but that was good enough for me to keep going and stay strong.

Nice to meet you and I wish you the best in your life and business.

Hey Mohammad,

Thank you for sharing your story.

I'm saddened to hear of the loss of your Father. It's soooo very unfair and sad.

In life, we're faced with many challenges... sickness, death, war, financial woes... but it's these challenges that make us stronger and better people.

I'm very thankful you are a strong and caring person.

My advice to you and to anyone reading this is to always believe in yourself, have faith, love your family and friends, be patient, persevere, and even when life throws a curveball to never ever give up.

The bad things, the sad things will pass... like you said, stay positive!

Wishing you and your family the very best in 2020.

Monica

Hey Monica,

Thank you for your kind words and your advice as well. As you said, life is unfair sometimes but it is how we grow to be better. I hope everyone reading this find their way to stay strong and keep going.

I wish you a healthy and happy life and full of success.

Great message! We all have our obstacles, our ups and downs, the unforeseen. It's up to us to determine our next course of action and bounce back.

I've been offline for the past few months trying to figure out what direction I'm heading. My day job is kicking my butt right now and I've used this to keep me from promoting my own future.

Best wishes to you! Hope all your paperwork is getting sorted out.

Hey,

Yes, and these obstacles make us strong and better in dealing with problems in life. I see that and I hope everyone out there will be able to stay strong and keep looking forward.

I wish you the best in your life and business.

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