How Is Your Tongue?

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The tongue is a small part of the body but it can boast great things. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The tongue also is a fire, a world of discomfort among the parts of the body.

It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire sometimes non-stop and unable to diminish.

All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and creatures of the sea are being tamed and been tamed by man. But no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless part of the body, full of deadly poison.

There is an old African legend about a chief who had to test the wisdom of a young man he had chosen as his successor.

So he devised a strange test. He called the young man and said to him. "Prepare me two meals. One with the best ingredients available, and one with the worst.": And so the young man did.

The day came and the chief was served a plate of succulent sliced cow tongues with vegetables. It was excellent and after the meal, the chief asked the young man why he chose to prepare the tongue.

He replied. "The tongue is one of our best parts. It can speak words of truth, bring healing, comfort, give courage, and strengthen another person's integrity. It can speak of love, harmony, and actually, hold our village together."

The chief was impressed. He waited eagerly for the next meal. On the day it was to be served, the young man came into the hut, and handed the chief a plate full of the exact same food.

He ate it, then asked the young man. "Why did you fix the same meal?" Without hesitation, the young man said, "It's true that the tongue can be the best part of us, but it can also be the worst.:

"The tongue can rip people apart by saying words of anger and discouragement. It can spread lies, deceit, slander, and it has the power to destroy our families and our tribe."

The old chief sat and thought. He nodded his head. He was now convinced he had made the right choice. He had chosen a wise man.

Most people do not realize the power of their tongues. It might be a small part of the body but it can truly either lift you up or pull you down. It can encourage you or totally lose your zest for life. It can build you up or it can tear you down faster than the strange bullet.

The tongue can be very productive in all ways but it can be quite destructive in just a few seconds.

So many couples parted their own ways because of malicious words uttered by each one of them.

Family ties are broken because of a lack of decent words of understanding and harmony.

Friendships are lost because of accusations and too many assumptions of each other's actions.

Working relationships collapsed because of words of dishonesty, envy, jealousy, and suspicions.

Business contracts lost because of barriers in communications with no solid grounds.

Gossips wreak havoc on neighborhood bonding.

Everywhere you are you will be surrounded by people who do nothing but complain, criticize, condemn, and compare their present situations to something or someone worst than they are.

Why can't we all come together and just express words of encouragement, inspiration, and motivation?

Practice that and from now on only good things can come out of your mouth and refrain from judging people no matter who they are and stop being so righteous about everything.

Once you utter those damaging words, you can never take them back and so be very careful when you open your mouth. Think twice before you do.

There you are, my WA Family, a simple post to ponder upon, and thank you so much for your precious time reading my blog post.

I hope this little post brings awareness of the importance of that small part of the body and yet so powerful that it can either create a king or a queen in a palace or a beggar in a dumpster.,

HAVE AN AMAZING DAY OR NIGHT FILLED WITH JOY, PEACE, LOVE, AND UNLIMITED ABUNDANCE.

God bless you all.

I love you all dearly.

Elizabeth

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The tongue is like a hammer! It can be used for forging steel or for breaking bonds. It all depends on what use we decide to put it.
I pray we would be wise in the use of our tongue because of its enormous powers to build or tear down..

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You are truly right Dada,
and however we used it
determined the outcome.

Thank you for being with
us again and great to see
you.

Have a peaceful night.

Elizabeth

Hi Elizabeth, I loved this whole post!
Words of life or words of death. We should not use our tongue like a weapon of destruction, but it seems we all start out like little children throwing sand at our friends in sand box earth, rather than using whatever we have to collectively build a better world.

But we really don't know love, until we know the Author of Real and Big, patient, forgiving, forbearing, self-controlled LOVE.
We all come from some dis-functionality. In the Word, same thing.

Pr 27/5 Better is an open reprimand [of loving correction] Than love that is hidden.
Pr28/23 He that rebukes a man afterwards shall find more favor than he that flatters with the tongue:
Dave B was sleepwalking through WA life, and he wants a follow back from me, I look at his "evidence" and tell him what for!
So he answers back Suzay, you really woke me up and gave me a
hard whack in my Jaaxy!
He left a few months later, but left me a message Suzay! I will always remember you, and thank you for directing me to
do life in a better way. I promise I will use it.

Elizabeth, my heart says I promise to use what you teach, for it IS the language of the Heart of hearts, and therefor our hearts, Hentley, Keisha, Nichola, Andre, Hugh, Eugene, and
U N I, T (that's) Y
Then in Excellence is love in action, we got Les, Partha, Jay, Dale, Becca, Cassi of Troy, etc.
And it could keep listing, without falling over. HaHa ha.

I love you, WAuntie Zay

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This is beautiful, Aunt Zay and
really if only even just a few of
the so-called creation here on
earth would have their eyes
and ears open, we would have
much lesser inappropriate and
uncalled-for behavior and live
a peaceful, harmonious and
loving relationship.

Everything has to start from each
of us and it is really up to us to
begin and demonstrate what is
the real meaning of humanity.

Anyway, those people you have
mentioned, you know them all
ad so they are.

Thank you so much, my dear Zay.

You are who you think you are.

Love you much.

Elizabeth

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Great post from now on I am going to speak in tongues.

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That's even better, Michael.

Elizabeth

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Queen Lizzie , I am not going to ponder on this post , instead am going to comment
Let's start by saying every single member here at wealthy affiliate has a slap from that stick during their lifetime
That slap is
Someone telling a lie on you , yes a blatant , currupt lie , lace with anger hatred and envy
I could say this, because this
happened to me lots of time , it's even happen to me recent ,
But my ancestors teach me that good will always prevail over evil
So I live to see the recent lie someone tell on me , with an intention to cause me harm , has backfire on the person , now the evedence is overwhelmed , that the same person in question , is a prolific liar , now he is the one under the pressure , and am laughing
So thank you Queen Lizzie
This post is a CLASSIC or let's call it a SPECIMEN
The tongue 👅 is dangerous ,let's all speak good and supportive language amongst our friends family and business associates,with good intentions
Because the wrongs you used your tongue to speak
Will come back to haunt you like a ghost
A wonderful post Queen Lizzie
Well said
Nice one

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Thank you soo much, Hent.

You know, no matter what other
people say or do to you it doesn't
really matter.

WHY? Because you know who
you are and you know what you
are capable of doing.

The main thing is how you respond
to the situation because that will
determine who you really are.

And so you did what was appropriate.

Let the truth reveal itself and it will
in its time and then you will have the
last laugh, right?

Also, in everything, there is a reward
and a not so good consequences and
so time is the essence.

Good for you, Hent.

You are just so blessed and that you
remained to be calm and compose.

God be with you always in all ways.

Elizabeth

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Wow Mr. Hentley, Wow, all you have said is truly true!
Z

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Nice one Suzay
People choose to behave badly , we can all show love and respect for each other , by offering support and motivational comment
Not pulling down and criticising each other
Nice one Suzay

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Bless you Sweet Mr. Hentley Bless you!

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Thanks Suzay

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Nice thank you for sharing.

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You are welcome, Isabelo and
thank you much more.

Elizabeth

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Your always welcome Lizzie.

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:-)

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