About BeXDREAMe
Joined August 2017
Hello! My name is Darvy and this is my story.
I grew up helping my parents with their donut shop while attending school, and it is tough work 7 days a week, 13-14 hours a day with only Christmas and Thanksgiving off. My parents are still working hard but are more tired and have health issues now. They have always told me to study hard and get a less strenuous and more financially stable job so I would not have to struggle as they have. They wanted me to work in the medical field, but many of the medical careers I researched didn't really seem right for me.

I did good in school but I was very shy and really struggled with math, chemistry and physics. I had to study hard compared to some of my friends who understood concepts easily and without as much time and studying put in. I knew that I should've went for a career that I could be passionate about, such as graphic design since I have always loved arts and crafts. Ever since I could hold a crayon, I had drawn on anything I could. However, I didn't want to go against my parent's wishes for my future with a medical career so I just went through school trying to figure out what I could possibly do. Eventually, I found an interest in physical therapy so I studied for that and earned a bachelor's degree after 6 years of college and much debt only to find that I still needed to take more classes to qualify for doctorate programs, which accepts only 30 people each year. There were so many signs that things just weren't going smoothly for me. I have friends who studied physical therapy with me but they are a few years younger than I am. They have always been more social and outgoing, and I saw that they have their lives and career goals solidly set. Their personalities and drive were the right fit for the career they chose to pursue so I am not surprised that they were chosen for doctorate programs they applied to. This woke me up to the fact that I need to leave this path that I am not as passionate about.

So here I am. After graduating, I just looked for any job that I could apply for and worked jobs that I could have just been working at straight out of high school. I have many interests and hobbies, but I have never really been skilled or an expert at any one thing. I saw myself as a jack of all trades even before I started high school so I was confused and didn't know what to do with my life. Now, I am hopeful that I can use all my interests to be my strength instead of my weakness.

I love my parents and want to thank them for all the love and care they have given me and I am striving to be able to help them in return. I know they want the best for me and I am going to give it my all to make that happen now.
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Money I would be happy earning
Right now, I would be happy earning enough to support my family and pay all my bills and debt.
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Money I would be ecstatic earning
Honestly, I would be ecstatic earning more than enough to share with others and live comfortably. I am not sure how much that is, but hopefully one day I can earn it :)
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Time I'm willing to invest to achieve my goals
As much time as I can! No matter how long it takes, I have faith that as long as I keep at it and put in the time, I will see results.
 
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How much money would you be happy earning?
Right now, I would be happy earning enough to support my family and pay all my bills and debt.

How much would you be ecstatic earning?
Honestly, I would be ecstatic earning more than enough to share with others and live comfortably. I am not sure how much that is, but hopefully one day I can earn it :)

And how much time are you willing to invest to achieve these goals?
As much time as I can! No matter how long it takes, I have faith that as long as I keep at it and put in the time, I will see results.
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Anything can be accomplished if we have faith in ourselves, and for what we want to accomplish.
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Carson Premium
Hey Darvy! Today I just wanted to follow up with you to see how things are going! I hope all is well and you are enjoying yourself here within the Wealthy Affiliate community.

I want to make myself available to answer any questions or help with anything as you are getting started! Please touch base with me if you ever need a hand with anything or are feeling stuck, I am here to help. :)
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seconds2work Premium
Thank you, Darvy, for following me. I'm betting we can learn something from each other here in WA and its large community. I'm picking up a good amount of knowledge on Internet marketing from Wealthy Affiliate, but it's just wasn't enough for me.

So, I've been teaching myself coding and so far it has been a true adventure for me. You see, I'm in the process of writing a step-by-step guide on how to build a website from scratch.

When I say from scratch I mean punching the coding language in by hand. There's also a second guide in the works for my web design and development company, it shows a person how to do anything you want with your WordPress website.

Well anyway, you are just as busy as I am. I wanted to say thank you for following me and welcome to WA. If you have any questions, I'm here to help. May God bless you and be the light for your journey.
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wendyjane Premium
I hope things are going well. I know you are getting rolling within the training and there is ONE thing that always tends to confuse people and that is "what is my niche?".

I know, same thing happened to me when I started.

I just wanted to reach out and let you know that I am here if you ever want to run any niche "ideas" by me or you have any questions about finding your niche.

Get back to me when you get the chance! :)
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Hi Wendy and thanks for checking up on me :) I have a few niche ideas but here is one of the main ones I would like to focus and start with. How does diet and lifestyle for liver health sound? I am interested in this topic because my dad recently underwent a liver transplant, and I would like to learn more for him as well as inform others about how to care for their liver's health.
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Moty1 Premium
Congratulations Darby, I'm glad and I admire your way of saying things and the push you have, thanks to your wonderful parents, because they have given you all their love, affection and an integral formation. Keep it up, keep fighting for your goals, you are the future of this world, you know, here we are on this great platform to help and exchange experiences and successes, you are already a successful girl.
Best regards from your new friend Mario Alias Moty1.
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BeXDREAMe Premium
Thank you for your kind words and encouragement, Mario :) I appreciate it and am excited for what the future holds. Wishing you the best as well and hope everything going great for you here so far!
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wendyjane Premium
Hey there Darvy and welcome to Wealthy Affiliate. I'm Wendy, and I'm here to help you along the way! If you ever need a hand or have a question, just let me know.

So you're here to learn how to make money, right? First things first, make sure you start by checking out the "Online Entrepreneur Certification - Getting Started" course (Level 1). This is a task based step by step guide that will walk you through setting up your online business. Here's the link: Something you'll soon learn about the community here is there are tons of helpful people always willing to lend a hand. Feel free to dive in and ask any questions within the community you may have. Those that interact are more likely to succeed. :) You can access the getting started classroom here:

https://my.wealthyaffiliate.com/getting-started

You can also jump into live chat anytime, or drop me a message on my profile!

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If you decide to go premium within your first 7 days, here are the bonuses I will be giving you:

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✓ You'll get personal and private access to me. If you ever need any help going forward, I'll be here to help you out.

✓ I will send you Jay's live video training "Live Case Study in Real Time" - you'll get to watch an expert build a niche website in REAL TIME!

✓ You'll get Rebecca's "How to Quickly Identify your Online Money Making Niche" - learn how to select the right niche for you!

✓ I also am going to send you Steve's "Business From Scratch" tutorial. This is an awesome piece of training that can really clear up any initial confusion you may have.

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But only if you upgrade within your first 7 days... (this is what I call my "action takers" bonus).

Anyway, I just thought I'd get in touch and introduce myself. Remember if you have any questions about anything please let me know. I'd be more than happy to help out.

It's great to have you here as a member Darvy. I sincerely look forward to working with you and getting to know you better. :)

Your friend,

Wendy
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BeXDREAMe Premium
Thank you Wendy! Your story hit home for me. I thought going through school was what I had to do so I earned a degree but could not find what I wanted to do in life still, and now I want to give WA a chance to change my life as well. Looking forward to working with you too :)
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