Hypocritical
So basically, I dove into this head first without second thought. All I knew was that no matter how "unrealistic" it is to make money online, people are doing it.. so I should be able to do it too. And as much as I swore that I wouldn't give up, or lose motivation. It only took a few weeks before I was completely "I'Med out"... Earlier today I was looking into college and I made the comment to my husband that if I start now, I'll just quit Wealthy Affiliate and pour all my energy into becoming a paralegal. But as soon as the words came out of my mouth he looked at me like he does.. and he said something along the lines of me "not finishing what I started" which translated perfectly in my head as "SO you're giving up".. I got furious, in a matter of seconds I was ready to lash out on him about how that made me feel.. Until I realized how I felt. He was exactly right! I've been so hypocritical about this. I'll be the first person to step up and cheer someone else on about achieving their dreams, or telling them how important it is to be determined and motivated. But what about me?
The awesome success stories that I dream of telling someday. How will I achieve that by giving up? I won't. It's 100% impossible. And the few articles and 1 website I have up surely aren't going to make my future financially stable. Or my childrens someday. So starting tonight. Right now. I'm building a website that I plan to make successful. Better yet it isn't a plan. It's a guarantee. I will put out at least 3 articles a day no matter WHAT I have going on. The house can be cleaned and articles can be done too. I don't have to cancel one out to achieve the other. There is no excuse for my lack of achievement other than laziness. And this is my plan, my goal. For anyone reading this, thanks for taking the time. I WILL have a success post in the forum in a month or less. I don't care if I have to work more than I play. Type more than I talk. I will get there. Here we go!
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It sure sounds like you are ready to start kicking some ass. What you have described about article writing (and doing it no matter what) is what divides the successful people from the not successful. Those that are willing to put in the work will see the sales and be motivated to move into a new niche. You have to work super hard to start seeing some results... and when you do, you only get more motivated.
Very inspiring what you wrote. Best of luck!
Thank you for the encouraging comments. GARRD that is actually a great idea. I'm gonna do this! I wish all the success to each of you as well..=] Take care** xXx :)
We all have that aaha moment and it sounds like you got yours I would suggest you print out your post and keep it on your computer or on the fridge don't forget it is easy to fall back into the same hole if you don't put a lid on it, or fill it I say fill your hole with your post so you can't fall back in it.
To your success
GARRD
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I like this post. This game we call "IM" is pretty much just about you DOING the work on a daily basis. Given good research and writing, it WILL work...but it DOES take time. We are all behind ya girl!
haha, I like your husband... My girl is the same way to me about this w/a thing... I usually succeed at everything I do... But she gets on me about it a lot...
I agree completely, the only thing holding you back is simply NOT doing it! You got it though, get er done! haha
Good for you! You are obviously a bright person and you CAN do this. It's only the not doing it that's been holding you back. Go make that money!
Don't be too hard on yourself. Remember, everyone works at their own pace. Find your rhythm and then your groove. You will be OK! Much Luck to you!