Have You Judged Your Progress In This Manner?
Back in 2015 when I first joined Wealthy Affiliate, my goals were very ambitious to complete the training, build my website, interact in the WA community and bring in tons of referrals. So I set off on a blazing trail.
However, an expectied obstacle occured along the way.
A snag along the road that invoked such thoughts as::
- "Come on, I should be so much further along than this."
- "I'm so far behind, i'll never catch-up."
- "Oh boy, it's taking me sooooo long to finish this training. What's my problem?"
- "Maybe I should quit. I'm not earning as much as I expected.".
What prompted these thoughts?
Well, I can think of two culprits.....
Uncompromising Expectations
Somehow, in my mind, if didn't meet the timelines and goals I had set for myself, this meant "FAILURE!."
Because I was so relentless towards my expected performance, I became a victim to my own condemnation..
Not once did anyone here at Wealthy Affiliate discourage me. My sponsor has always been and is still there for me.
The guilty verdict came from no other voice but my own. That's it!
Comparison to Others
Gulp! Yes, I admit to comparing myself to others. Upon endeavoring on a deep look inside myself, the admisson soon came forth, "I'm comparing myself to others!"
Witnessing members, especially those with less time at WA than myself, building sites, posting their success and moving ahead, poured more fuel on the fire of self-condemnation.
However, I have good news!
With this discovery and admission, I sson set myself free!.
My Advice
If you're experiencing something similar....STOP IT! ...LOL!
Your journey through Wealthy Affiliate will be very different than others.
Please:
- Don't compare yourself to others. Learn from others.
- Be firm yet forgiving to yourself.
- Have fun!
Also:
- Stay Focused
- Be Consistent and Persistant
- Don't Give Up on Your Dreams
Finally
If you're putting forth your best effort,
EMBRACE your PACE.
It's special to you and you won't regret it!
Blessings to all of you,
Allen
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Thanks Allen. I am struggling with the same stuff at the moment. Even though I made some money on Amazon, after a burnout I didn't manage to produce any content anymore and saw everything drop down big time. I am just about struggling to get back on track right now.
Steven
Glad to see you're not giving up. Sometimes we just need to step back for a moment and make an adjustment.
I'm sure you'll find your groove again!
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I needed to hear this. You described me perfectly in this scenario.
I will take your advice for sure. Thank you very much.
Keisha
Happy to hear it helped you. You're most welcome!
May you never give up and have faith in yourself.
You can do this!
Thank you Allen!